in some ways, i feel that i'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time. i love him a lot and i know he feels the same way. we care for eachother, and he wants to make it special, but part of me is scared that i'll regret it if we ever break up. any advice?
2006-10-26 08:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by *autumn*rustle* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you aren't ready then don't do it! If you are saving yourself for marriage, then don't do it! If you are doing it because you are curious abot sex, dont do it. If you are doing it because you feel like you are ready and it's what you want, then go for it. Someone will be your first, might as well let it be someone you care about . Be sure to use a condom though. Never forget that.
2006-10-26 08:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the reasons why I'm waiting till marriage.
You should wait and give that gift of your virginity to your future husband. That is the best gift you will give him.
I am waiting. I have a boyfriend that I love with all my heart. We have been dating for 9 months. There have been plenty of times I wanted to give myself to him. But... I don't know what will happen in the future. We talk about marriage. He totally respects me and my decision.
If you two DO break up, you will feel like absolute crap. You don't want regrets. Your first time shouldn't be something you regret.
And my God, you can get pregnant... anything can happen.
Wait till your wedding day.
2006-10-26 08:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then you should wait and he should respect that... ...you are ready when nothing makes you scared or uncomfortable or uncertain in any way... ..just enjoy the time you spend together and dont try to plan the sex part... ...good luck
2006-10-26 08:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by Carmen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please.. please,please,please,please,pl... PLEASE go to the links I have below and read the information there BEFORE you give yourself to this guy!!!
Then... AFTER you have read them and done some thinking about
- what would I do if I got pregnant?
- what would my life be like if I had a child?
- do I understand the risks of STDs and am I prepared to protect myself against them?
- what will this do to my reputation?
Once you have done all of that then you need to have some sort of discussion with the guy about consequences.. what if you did get pregnant what would you do? if you would keep it then you really need to let him know BEFORE you sleep with him.
If you have other questions feel free to email me!
2006-10-26 08:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called "living life" get used to it because I'm sure you are in for a world of disappointments.
2006-10-26 08:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
sex is for married people - u need to wait
2006-10-26 08:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jim G 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋