I have this good friend who asked me to the dance. I don't know if he likes me, but pppl tell me that he dumped his girlfriend for me.. I want to ask him out, is this a lady thing to do or a guy thing?
also, if he likes me should i kiss him on the cheek or lips at the right time at the dance? is this appropriate?
2006-10-26 08:42:15 · 11 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait til the dance :) how exciting! then there you guys can discuss your feelings for eachother! GOOD LUCK! :)
2006-10-26 08:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh. "Friend-crush." Exciting, scary.
Depends -- if you want to find out how you would be together enough to risk the friendship, then you ask him out. The worst he can say is "no," which won't kill you, and he might say "yes." Doesn't have to be "I heard you left your girlfriend for me, so how about it?" Can be casual, as in, "Sure, let's go to the dance together, but before that, why don't we grab some coffee?"
Asking out is for whoever works up the courage first. He's already asked you to the dance - now it's your turn to risk asking him someplace.
Kissing - if you're the one to initiate it, a quick, casual cheek kiss is a good way. "You look great (guys like to hear it, too)." Kiss. If he wants to kiss you after that, he'll let you know - meantime, you've at least planted the idea.
Hope you guys have fun at the dance.
2006-10-26 15:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he's asked you to the dance go to the dance. Decide at the dance whether or not you wish to ask him out and if he like him, I'd say go for the kiss. But maybe if you wait he might ask you out.
2006-10-26 15:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do u like him?? Do u think that after dumping his girlfriend , is there any surety that he won`t dump u?? Be very cautious in these matters. First, observe this guy, I myself being a guy can very well understand he`s more of trying to take u 4 a ride. Don`t let him do so....Wait for some time , observe him b`fore going so fast.
2006-10-26 15:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Friend always there 4 u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well if people are telling you that he wants you then maybe he does. talk to him about it. it doesn't matter what gender you are to ask someone out. if you like him then at the dance during a slow song look up into his eyes and close them and open them slowly and then he might see that you like him and then the kisss might just happen. I would go for the lips though. good luck
2006-10-26 15:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Haley Candace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do, do not ask him out that is not lady like the man is supposed to ask out the woman. If he broke up with his g/f for you than it should be soon that he is going to ask you out. And don't kiss him either wait for him to make the first move.
2006-10-26 15:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by Cilla_88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel in the moment... do NOT decide ahead of time how you are going to act.... good luck, and have a great time at the dance!
2006-10-26 15:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by chocmartinigrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL ASK HIM OUT BUT IF HIS EX-GIRL SEES U 2 AT DA DANCE SOMETHING MIGHT GO DOWN IV SEEN IT HAPPEN. BUT YEAH ASK HIM OUT
2006-10-26 15:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by coolcatforwatuwantfromme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to know if he likes you or for him to know u like him then tell him. and if he likes you too then you can ask him out.
2006-10-26 15:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by JackieJaguar08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date him. and if you both like onother than kiss him on the lips girl!!!!!
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-26 15:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋