he is 21. if yes what should we do?
2006-10-26 08:37:04 · 11 answers · asked by shani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be very supportive and say that you may need to see an M.D. tell him this is common and that there is nothing that he should be ashamed of.
Make sure that he gets enough sleep and also doesn't get plastered with booze before sex which can greatly decrease stamina. good luck.
2006-10-26 08:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's a minute man and also falls asleep immediately afterwards, then yes. if he could at least go a few times immediately after the first one, then you could just work past it that way. it might take ten years or more before he can last longer than a minute.
Edit: Someone mentioned treating it like more than the old in-out. I agree with that. Extend that sensuality!!
2006-10-26 08:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will be a problem in the future if he doesnt speak with a doctor.I married my ex husband when i was 19 we separted last november and up until then i never had a orgasim during intercourse.He was a minute man too!!!
2006-10-26 11:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by jenn27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah of course you will if you don't get help but that's why your here ahe. So here's what I can give ya
try rubber band around testie (not to tite but anough to cut back urge)
ice himself before sex
Getting some oral (doesnt help with the sex part but hey help yourself if he can)
jerking off 5 mins before sex would help him go longer.
get a comisutra book
or just tell him to buck up and do it like a man he could change if he cared anough
2006-10-26 08:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by Since birth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are books that help you and him together work on the problem. The Joy of Sex is one I think. If you marry him before this is resolved I anticipate problems from it down the road.
2006-10-26 08:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some good books like the Kama Sutra and learn how to control it so he lasts longer. It doesn't have to be a problem. Do lots and lots of foreplay to get YOU ready....then postpone his cl i ma x all you can. The suspense will drive him wild!
2006-10-26 08:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some circumstances it extremely is approximately concentration different circumstances it extremely is approximately decision. do no longer stress one yet another into it. enable it happen slowly and see if that works. If no longer communicate approximately it and in keeping with possibility ask a doctor.
2016-11-25 22:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by jarvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's bothering you now, talk to him. tell him to think about other things, like his grandmother or something else. most guys can't last long anyway. make sure you go looong on the foreplay. :) Good luck!
2006-10-26 08:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like in baseball, sometimes you'll need a reliever called in. I can be that relief for you. Call me. I'm serious.
2006-10-26 08:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by jeff15116 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try treating sex as being more than just the old in-out.
2006-10-26 08:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by romulusnr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋