I recently came to college, and me and my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years broke up. We still talk and he has a g/f. Is it rude for us to talk now that he has a g/f? I don't want to step on her toes, because she is very sweet, and I don't want him to loose her.
2006-10-26 08:29:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as he's honest and tells her that you do then there's no problem. Would you like it? probably not. Again, make sure his girlfriend knows it or yes, it's wrong. Or why else would he keep it a secret.
2006-10-26 08:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I am still very good friends with my ex and I'm newly married. If she has a problem with it then clearly you have to respect that but as long as you aren't trying to get back in or vice versa you are fine. My ex is a great man and I am blessed to have him as a friend. We are better off that way and I'm sure that is how you feel too.
2006-10-26 15:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cristina M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you both know your priorities and still have no feelings for eachother.
I don't think it would be wrong to still be friends, but if I were his new girlfriend I don't think i'd like it much, unless when you two hung out "I" was there too.
But i'm jealous by nature...
2006-10-26 15:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by sk8erchica15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best for you to step back. Put yourself in her shoes, would you like it if your new boyfriend kept in touch with the ex-g/f?
Just let him go and move on. It seems you care for him and don't want to ruin the new relationship so go on with your life.
2006-10-26 15:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can stop talking for sometime if she feels uncomfortable. After all, it`s really so nice to read about u`t feelings towards u`r ex-boyfriend. I really appreciate it!!! U`ll surely deserve the luckiest one as u`r match.
2006-10-26 15:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by Friend always there 4 u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong with talking as long as its just as friends and his girlfriend is aware. If you'd like his girlfriend to know this maybe you could invite the both of them out to hang out sometime and become friends with her as well.
2006-10-26 15:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't try to get back together with him, no it shouldn't be a problem. If you are really worried about it though you could always talk to her yourself and see how she feels about your relationship. If she has a problem with it, then you should back away and let their relationship run its course.
2006-10-26 15:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and him are just honest friends, you're not sneaking around with each other then i think its fine. But if its a problem for their relationship then you may need to back off a little and give them room.
But if she is cool with it and you and him are cool with it then its ok
2006-10-26 15:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by Some1Special 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her first; explain your previous relationship with him and let her make the decision if idle conversation is exceptable. Otherwise; leave them alone.
2006-10-26 15:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you guys are just friends and that you don't feel anything for him anymore. Set things straight and let them both know that you guys are just friends. Nothing more, nothing less.
2006-10-26 15:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋