i like a guy he is in cbz which is crazy boz in santa paula i like him but the only thing is holding me back is that he is in a gang and i dont want to be into that that much or anything wat should i do and i heard he is really nice and every thing u know what i mean
2006-10-26 08:27:26 · 25 answers · asked by santa paula gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK I'm with a gang banger myself their not that bad as every one seems just tell him that you like him and tell him he can be in the gang but you don't want him out fighting or shooting people that's what I told my man and he only fights when he has to you got to talk to him about it first don't listen to what the other people say its your choice and gang members ain't that bad like other people make them seem they make them seem like aliens but go for it if you really like him get to know him first before you make your decision I've been with my man for 5 years and he's in a gang but he don't go out and get in trouble only if he needs to
2006-10-26 08:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can like a lot of people that you don't have to hook up with. You should have more in common than just being attracted to someone nice. How nice can he be if he is in a gang?
Does he share your values? Which ones? Religion? Ideas? Strengths? What vices does he have? Is he respectful of law and rules? Is he headed in a direction YOU want to go-like college or to a great job? Is he sweet and gentle?
Run! Do not associate with a gang for any reason. If he LIKES you, maybe he will leave the gang to associate with YOU. Hold your standards. You woulldn't want your little sister to get involved with a nice gangster, right?
Gangs kill futures.
2006-10-26 15:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but if him being in a gang bothers you then clearly don't even get to know him more. It isn't safe for one and two, say you fell romantically for eachother, had a kid... would you want the father of your child to be in a gang? If the answer is no then look someplace else. There are millions of good looking successful, fun, and NICE guys out there looking for a girl to love. Take your time trying to find the one.
Good luck. I know it's easier said then done to move on but think about your future.
2006-10-26 15:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by Cristina M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you like a gang member you re dumb . first off hes dumber cause he needs a gang to make him feel well . second you re just gonna wind up in trouble . stay away from this guy . or the next thing you know you will be in a woman jail and you will see that his gang that clam es to take care of theyer own wont do nothing for you ?
2006-10-26 15:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop! He's in a gang! You know better. If he's in a gang, then he's not "nice". Do NOT get involved with this guy. Do not even speak to this guy. If he speaks to you, say "hi" or "bye" and that's it. If you get involved with this guy and something happens, either his friends are going to come after you or the cops are going to come after you. I live in DC and there are stupid little girls getting shot and killed all the time here because they get involved with gang members. Leave it alone!
2006-10-26 15:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful. Once you get into a gang it is hard to get out.
Try to talk to anyone who knows him and see if he really is in a gang. If not then you are fine. If he is, then try to find out how tough a gang he is in. It might not be a violent gang, especially since you say that he is a nice guy.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-26 15:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do this. Those guys get shot and the people around them are put in danger as well. I've had friends who fell in love with the gang member boy and then all of the sudden they become the next target for danger.
your putting yourself in danger with this.
2006-10-26 15:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say u should think about this again cause u see if u go out with him u become a member of that gang too and they will never let u out of that,alive.so take care with those guys cause they never play games,they do verry bad things which u cant even imagine.
if i was u i would never go not even closer
2006-10-26 15:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww such a nice guy.. too bad he's a gangster. come on girl. Fast livin' is goin' get you trapped in the street game. Before you die I hope you have a chance to make a change!
2006-10-26 15:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by bigmarcus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow... be careful but dont assume hes no good cuz of his assossiations, get to know him, my husband left all ties to a very crazy life style not unlike the guy ur interested in for me but its not easy for them, give him time and u never know what could happen
2006-10-26 15:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by sophia's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋