What exactly do men define as 'fit'?
2006-10-26 08:19:25
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answer #1
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answered by Nicolette G 2
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Tiffany p are you sure you really want to do that? give your email like that? if you are really fit you shouldn't have any problem dating men and such don't you think? it's not my business but I think it's a bit creepy to give your email like that and say that you are fit. Of course you could be shy but I'm starting to be a bit off topic so I'll stop now.
I don't know if I'm the only one who thinks like this...but back to topic I think that you should go to a gym in case you're not using one yet and even if you are fit, why not be even more? if you're lucky you're naturally attractive and women won't have a problem if you're not perfectly fit. but most of all be natural, don't behave like a jerk and never be arrogant I don't think there is one single woman in this world that doesn't feel repulsed by it. But I am a guy so I don't think I'm really the best advisor, so do what you have to do and good luck
2006-10-26 08:46:44
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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listen up my man.
first of all, this is a really common problem. to a certain extent, we all face fear and nervousness when we talk to women or approach them. there are some things you can do:
1. you need to have a lot more practice. practice talking to every woman around you until it's not so scary. say "hi" or just ask any question under the sun. this will desensitize you to the process of interacting with women.
2. practice asking the questions out loud, when you alone. keep preparing. memorize a few questions or routines and say them out loud 20 times a day. the more you feel prepared, the more you will be prepared. having said what you have to say will give you confidence.
3. watch and not approach. for a few weeks when you see a girl you want to talk to, consciously do not approach her. instead, run a practice of what you could say in your mind instead. say those things out loud, later, when you are alone. this again will help it feel natural when you actually do it.
4. do fear-reducing exercises. if panic or anxiety is an issue, deal with it. do deep breathing exercises, visualize yourself being calmer, and create a mental "happy place" to help deal with fear.
Best of luck! u need it
2006-10-26 08:24:07
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answered by mindb00m 2
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first of all make sure you are fit yourself. If you are overweight or have a big belly, no woman will want you, even an overweight woman. Also don't be a couch potato as most fit women are very active
2006-10-26 08:36:22
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answered by reallyfedup 5
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When you go to pick them, Open the door for them in your car, close it, Ask her what she would like to eat,she isn't hungry ask her if she would like to do a little dancing and perhaps a drink or two. Take her to nice place open her door, close it again , when your shown your table pull out her chair, close back. If she has to use the powder room stand up pull out her chair, stand
sit her down when she returns. Do all this again when you leave
to take her home. You'll find a a Little manners goes a long way.
2006-10-26 08:32:52
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answered by Anonymous
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Go to the gym there are plenty of fit women there. I dont know how you would attract them though....do you have any attributes..are you physically attractive?...good sense of humour? personality etc if so then you should have no problem....women dont like creepy men who seem desperate (just something to bare in mind)
2006-10-26 08:27:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Are you a fit man? If not, you can't really expect to attract fit women.
2006-10-26 08:20:44
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answered by Ally 5
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By the way that you are speaking I'm assuming that you are not fit yourself. First of all, you need to get in shape, that's the easiest way to get a woman who is in shape. Second, you need a lot of confidence. Confidence is the best way to get any woman.
2006-10-26 08:22:53
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answer #8
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answered by Blake H 2
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go the the gym or bars and hit on the ones u like. ( u betta be fit urself if u asked this question)
2006-10-26 08:42:05
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answer #9
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answered by practicully_famouse 2
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well get more fitter than the woman u like thats it no other way dude or show ur any of these vitamins u have "mmm"mind or money or musles i m sure the womens shall fall like stones on uuu
2006-10-26 08:26:19
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answered by vijay r 2
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Speak only to the fit ones... Don't talk to fat ones
2006-10-26 08:31:42
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answered by Anonymous
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