2006-10-26 08:03:11 · 15 answers · asked by Lee 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same ones that make them attractive when they are younger.
- you look in shape (no fatties)
- you look pleasing to the eye (you dress appropriatly)
- you get drunk easily (the better the quicker for most guys)
- you put out
now.. the third one is a little tongue in cheak.. but... you would be surprise at the number of younger guys that go for older women anymore!!!! Especially if they have kept themselves up and enjoy sex!!!!!
So... if you are looking for a sexual partner I don't think you will have a problem. If you are looking for a committed relatioship then you need to realize that most guys around your age will come with some sort of baggage and you need to decide just how much and what type you want in your life!
2006-10-26 08:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I can answer this with a well qualified yes! Unfortunately, as women age it seems that they fall apart. I'm still tall, dark, handsome and fit but the years have not been kind to women in my age group.
Keep your hair long! Why is it that women chop off their hair and adopt that "Butch" cut look?? If that's what you like, fine, but you can't force me to like it.
I know you've had a LOT more relationships than I have. It's just a fact of the numbers that women are approached more in a day than most men are in 3 years. Men even chat up non-attractive women so that's no cop out. Yes, there's a lot of water under your bridge but PLEASE! Lose the BAGGAGE! I'm not your daddy, I'm not your first boyfriend, your first husband, or your second, so don't try and make me pay for everything any man has ever done wrong to you.
Stay or become sexual! It's about the only closeness and human contact we get! Playing head games with sex is NOT attractive.
Stay fit and active. I want a partner that I can explore with. I'm hardly done living and I want a woman who's not going to hold me down...(so to speak.)
I like being a man. Show me that you LIKE that, that you're not trying to "fix" me or "change" me into one of those New-Age "Sensitive" type wussy boys.
Be comfortable being a woman. I love the fact that men and women are not the same, "Vive la differ`ance". Be a woman, If I wanted a man, I'd go to a gay bar.
Be comfortable with yourself. There's no bigger turn off than a woman who's constantly down on herself. A chubby woman with verve and spirit is better than an insecure supermodel. A confident supermodel is even better.
2006-10-26 15:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am 42 and looking for a woman over 40
2006-10-26 16:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by jack B 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The personality,and keeping your body in fair shape,but once you are fun to be with and open minded at that age and know were you are going(confident,honest,well kept physically),men will always be attractive to you.
2006-10-26 15:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by joe 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If she has kept her weight under control, dresses like she has pride and confidence in her looks, speaks clearly and without cursing, does not smoke, does her job well and has at least an associate's degree, then I'll date her. If her kids turn out to be pigs - fergetaboutit!
2006-10-26 15:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I can't tell you in just few words. When you have over 40 you will see.
2006-10-26 15:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she's active,attractive and smart,why not?!
What keeps her attractive?A high sense of self-esteem that gets reflected in the way she talks,walks and carries herself.From knowing who she is and manifesting it in the way she dresses,speaks & conducts herself.
2006-10-26 15:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by harry r 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I do!
Am forty five, and have a hard time looking for a women to date.
The next question: Heels/keeping yourself together/looking sexy at your age, not at twenty five(before).
2006-10-26 15:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by Leather 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Look good and age young..That is all men ask for
2006-10-26 15:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Depends on the guy.
Different strokes across the face for different folks.
2006-10-26 15:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋