I am in a commited relationship with my boyfriend for over a year and i love him with all my heart he is who i am going to marry and grow old with. i can't help but wish i had experimented with another girl though is that normal? i'v had dreams about other girls and doing things but i love my boyfriend. i am not going to end our relationship and i do not wnat a threesome. any advice?
2006-10-26 07:59:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i couldn't have a threesome because i am afraid that i would not be as pretty or sexually appealing to my boyfriend as the other woman. and i can't just have sex with another person it would feel like i was cheating or betraying the love we have made and have together so am i just s.o.l?
2006-10-26 08:11:05 · update #1
To dream that you are a lesbian (but you are not in your waking life), signifies a union with aspects of yourself. It is symbolic of self-love, self-acceptance, and passion. You are comfortable with your sexuality and femininity.
You might want to look up some research on these urges and see if there's anything more to it.
2006-10-26 08:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you heard he was havving the same thoughts about men, what would you want him to do? Tell him it's OK? Tell him to get out? Suggest a threesome? Suggest yoube allowed to watch?
2006-10-26 08:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF my girl told me that, I would tell her to make herself happy. If you are gay, you are gay and I can't change that...but if you just want the soft touch of a woman, I can understand that as long as my needs are being met. Be honest with him and tell him you are curious and might want to try it. He'd probably really be about it if you let him watch.
2006-10-26 08:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to experiment before you get married. Also, tell your bf about your feelings, it could turn out to be a huge turn on for him. Don't start your future with dishonesty.
Threeway = Awesome sex for all!
2006-10-26 08:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by John H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you want to stay with him and love him I would not follow my dreams because if you bring it up to him it might scare him off thinking you are going to cheat on him.
2006-10-26 08:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it remain a fantasy. As I understand it, it's normal. If you act on it, you'll be doing yourself an injustice.
2006-10-26 08:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by andi b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he would object. I don't think another girl would be a threat to him. You could also just let him watch and not be involved ;)
2006-10-26 08:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's normal. Everybody has fantasies.
Just don't rush into anything you'll regret later.
2006-10-26 08:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think it is normal...but try diverting you mind from these thoughts cz u love ur bf.
Good luck!
2006-10-26 08:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women have that desire. The really good ones act upon it.
2006-10-26 08:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋