wat do u think of it,share your opinions
2006-10-26 07:56:54 · 30 answers · asked by maame 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've seen pregnant girls at 13. 18 isn't bad at all
2006-10-26 07:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there really is a "rightful" age for sex. It really depends on a lot of things really....I think the following information and links need to be explored before you decide to have sex!!!
AFTER you have read the links below do some thinking about
- what would I do if I got pregnant?
- what would my life be like if I had a child?
- do I understand the risks of STDs and am I prepared to protect myself against them?
- what will this do to my reputation?
Once you have done all of that then you need to have some sort of discussion with the guy about consequences.. what if you did get pregnant what would you do? if you would keep it then you really need to let him know BEFORE you sleep with him.
so.. you can see where this could happen at 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18 or even older. It really depends on the person.
If you have other questions feel free to email me!
2006-10-26 15:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Biologically speaking your body is ready for sex at an earlier age than 18. Psychologically speaking, you may never be ready for sex. It depends on the person. Socially speaking, you should not engage in sex until you are ready to support a child because that is the possible consequence of sex. The time to be ready to support varies with your life goals. Do you want to stay at home? Are you are career person? Will you be married? These are just some questions to ask when considering these things.
By my experience, people can plan sex all they want, but at the moment of truth it comes down to how horny are you at decision time.
2006-10-26 15:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by jasonheavilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20
2006-10-26 14:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by chi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no age for sex. 18 it's just the age a 90 year old man can touch you without going to jail. That's all. It's about your mental, psychological, and emotional status. do you feel ready is the question. I had sex the first time at 19 and if i can go back, i will wait few more year before doing it. Words
2006-10-26 15:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a legal adult, im proud of you waiting until 18 atleast, most people now days are 12 and older. But that aside, sex is when you're mature and ready not when you're old enough. Are you ready to take care of a baby? Are you ready for std's that are out there and people don't tell about?
2006-10-26 15:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, wait! Why the rush? Wait until you're in your 20s, you will be more emotionally mature and able to understand and appreciate the value of sex. It's not something for an 18 year old to try to pretend to be an adult. Sex is for adults not children.
2006-10-26 14:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I believe that if the person is mature enough to accept the responsabilities of what comes with having sex....Booty calls, one-night stands, heartbreaks from those guys that promised the world but only wanted the sex and in the worst scenario.....unplanned pregnancies and STDs.....
Then....yeah, have it....because sooner or later you will....and sometimes having premarital sex helps you find the perfect match...lets you figure out what you like and dislike so when you finally get married, you know exactly how to please your partner and how you want to be pleased.
2006-10-26 15:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by Pulgita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right age is when you're mature enough to know what you're getting into and be willing to accept the consequences that may come with your decision. Personally I say wait until you're married. But thats just me.
2006-10-26 14:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you're mentally and emotionally ready to handle all that goes along with it. it can really mess you up if you arent. and only you will know for sure. my bf was 18, his gf at the time was 14 ( i know i know, icky, but they had been dating a while, had school together, all that stuff) i was 15, my bf was 13 when he first lost his (not with me). i dont think i was ready. i thought i was, kinda, but i was really pushed and just gave up and decided to get it over with. i know i would have still lost it to the same guy, but i wish i had waited a little longer, we had only been dating 6 months, but we ended up dating almost 5 years
2006-10-26 15:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋