I have a crush on this wonderful girl. I have decided to tell her how I feel, but the problem is every time I try to tell her...I can't do it. I'm on the shy side, I'm intimidated by the idea of rejection because she is very special to me, and I feel if I try to put it into words it's gonna come out wrong. I'm thinking about writing her a letter telling her. Should I? What should I say in the letter if I do?
2006-10-26 07:48:00 · 13 answers · asked by strokesfanatic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its better to write her a letter and express your feelings. Be romantic, but also, give her the chance to chose- to be or not to be with you....
Write in your letter especially what you actually like at her, DO NOT describe her how you are feeling ( don't tell her that you can not eat or sleep because of her, remember- write only about what you like at her- )
It will be nice if you also compose a poem, If not search for one you consider to be nice .....
For example don't wright something like: "I'll die if i couldn't see you anymore ( keep this for the future...)
Most important, in that letter, don't use "big words" if your heart tells you to "talk" about smaller ones...
Be sincere.... Don't complicate yourself!
whatever will be the outcome, don't forget also: she deserved to be happy, right?
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-26 08:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by Night Sorrows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's totally okay to tell her by letter...i have in the past told the guy i liked through a letter...it's easier to get the ideas out...and most of the time the girl will feel happy about getting the letter in the first place...Don't be afraid of rejection...embrace the fear...own it. The worst thing that can happen is that she'll say no. And then you can get over her...most of the time, i'm willing to bet, she'll give it a shot just because you put out the effort.
Good Luck!
2006-10-26 07:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jade de Rhiannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be intimidated by the girl but not by the idea of being rejected. you'll be rejected in many situation in this life. Be prepared. A letter is good, but your own words are better. Find the guts to talk to her.
2006-10-26 07:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and her share a friend than you could ask that friend to ask her if she is interested in you as more than a friend. If they come back and tell you that she is than you should definately talk to her face to face. Tell her that you really like her and you would like to go out together on a date so that you could get to know her better. I hope this helps. If you can't go to her face to face than a letter is also a sweet way of letting someone know about how you feel.
2006-10-26 07:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by rockerchick0918 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to tell her via letter. Just make sure the letter isn't 6 pages long and super mushy. If she doesn't feel the same way, you might freak her out and make her think you're obsessive. Keep it sweet and short.
2006-10-26 07:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by Dasher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 22:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by melancon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write to her. i'm a woman and my first love (we were both 21) used to write to me. i love the written language and i think for most women, it is very romantic to have a letter where a guy has poured out his heart. Go for it! If you don't risk it, you will never know. Better to have loved and lost than not loved at all.
2006-10-26 07:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell her through a letter but explain to her you feel and if your`re into poetry then write some of it in the letter.she Will really dig your originality.
2006-10-26 08:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by LiL_mZ_Sa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her in a letter. It seems so kiddy to do it but, that doesn't matter. Just as long as she gets the message.
2006-10-26 11:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, but follow it up with you wanna talk in person, get it off on paper first will lead u to say the "right" things.
2006-10-26 07:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by Sunnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋