Ok, this is a follow up to a follow up question I asked before, and the whole thing keeps getting more strange. A guy I like got my number from where I used to work, its been a few weeks now and he hasn't called. I contacted him once on myspace and he told he hes been really busy and out of town. Yesterday a friend told me that after he got my number another girl I worked with gave him her number and he made a date with her. I have just never been able to figure out why he would go out of his way to get my number and then never call me. Maybe he had second thoughts about calling me or something? Should I bother asking him about any of this or do his actions mean I already have my answer? I think I'm about ready to give up on the whole thing and just move on.
2006-10-26 07:18:10 · 26 answers · asked by tessa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes your question has been answered by his actions. Let it go and move on.
2006-10-26 07:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by awhisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. It was just not meant to be. I know you would like an answer, but honestly, it could hurt more than not knowing what happened. It could be as simple as he learned something about you that he did not like, or that he is more attracted to the other girl. A friend of his may be interested in you and he agreed to back off. Bottom line is that he changed his mind, it happens all the time. You are not less of a person because of it, it happens to a lot of people. Just act cool when around him and don't bother anymore.
2006-10-26 14:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by jasonheavilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have your answer. Some guys collect phone numbers as a form of affirmation. It make them feel like they are wanted and popular.
Don't bother looking to him for any reasons. If he had any guts you would already have them.
Move on baby - 3.2 billion men in the world (and so little time).
2006-10-26 14:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by zdrgnslyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i would have to let this one go. Who cares! Perhaps he changed his mind and maybe he thought the number he was getting was the number of the other girl and it turned out to be you. At least it did not happen and you never went out with him.
2006-10-26 14:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by bugjuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys just like to fish for girls number and then only date the best girl he likes.. he still havent ask u out so he doesnt know what he's missing..
y dont u call him instead.. ask him out.. girls too can do such things u know.. (asking for a date) .. then ull know if he's still interested.. or u just can forget about him and move on..
2006-10-26 14:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by Johny B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you're right about what you should do. The last thing you need to do is chase after a guy who got his head somewhere else. Just move on...
2006-10-26 14:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Yondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up and move on..but really move on. If he call you again later on, tell him you are real busy and out of town!
2006-10-26 14:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not that deep, the irrational thinking process you are even putting into this nonsense is probably why he isn't calling. Traits of insecurity and desperation are not qualities that are attractive in the dating process. Move on.
2006-10-26 14:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My God! If he hasn't called you, what do you think that means? If somene likes you, they go out of their way to contact you, no matter how busy they are. If he hasn't called you honey, you don't need to move on, because it never got started in the first place..........
2006-10-26 14:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey the only thing i can think of is he was probably using you to get to the other chick.. and i would not even waste your time telling him because if he nevered bothered about you before then you are gonna be just wasteing your breath if you tell him because i guarantee you that it will go in one ear and out the other. trust me it is not worth just move on there are more guys out there
2006-10-26 14:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by medical student 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋