I met a guy 3 weeks ago. We have gone out about 4 times. He has only kissed me once. It seems like he is really into me. After our last date he called me and asked me if I had a good time. He asked me when we could hang out again. BUT the thing is that he never calls when he says he will. there has been 2 times when I text him and I don't get any response till the next day. He xplained that his work is very time consuming and he is very very successful. We agreed to take things slow. I just need to know if he is playing games by not calling when he says he will or am I overreacting? Should I say anything to him or is it too soon to mention?
2006-10-26 07:15:27 · 7 answers · asked by angelsweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When guys don't call when they say they will its becasue:
- they are busy with their friends
- they are busy with another woman
In either case he is letting you know that while he enjoyed your company you are not a prioirty.
Additionally I believe you may have moved down in his priority list if he goes by the 3 date rule (if no sex within 3 dates then he drops you).
2006-10-26 07:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, chill... It is way too soon for you to spazz out. If I were in your shoes I would not say anything becuase it may scare him off. However, I would not take the relationship too serious. When you dig some one, you will make time to call, no matter how busy your are!
2006-10-26 14:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your over-reacting. im busy as hell and I need my space. Sometimes I cant call when I was supposed to and its not intensional at all. But being nagged makes me not want anythings so give it some time and let him be, but if it continues to long then he's playing games.
2006-10-26 14:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not be that interested in you anymore, and is just being polite rather than coming out and saying he doesn't want to see you anymore.
Don't obsess about him and keep your options open!
2006-10-26 14:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Lee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i think you should talk to him about it. He sounds 'unreliable', let him know exactly how you feel, 'cause if you guys deside to take the relationship further "that" will be a problem.
2006-10-26 14:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Yasmine_flower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 never rely on text messaging. #2 your idea of slow may be quicker than his. If it's meant to be it will happen.
2006-10-26 14:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Wart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your over acting from a guys perspective i think he is very shy and he is sometime afraid to talk to you .
2006-10-26 14:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by whiteboi882002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋