I met my lover over 5 mos ago however we've have been seriously seeing ea. other for 2 mos is that too early to let him move in.
2006-10-26 07:10:42 · 20 answers · asked by Tammi R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say no but me and my wife started living with each other after 2 months and were married right at our 2 year mark. But i thought moving in togther at 2 months was pushing it. Also the question is if you are spending everynight with him now and you or him only go home for a change of clothes then you might as well do it.
2006-10-26 08:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by freefinally101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah girl, that is way too early to shack up. Just continue doing what you have been doing and if things are ment to be, this shacking up situation will happen. I think you schould wait at least a year. That way, some of that "new" boyfriend/girlfriend feeling has gone away and in your head can make a reasonable decision. Within that time you can also check out his character and actually get a feel to see if you guys are good together.
2006-10-26 07:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so, not because of the time frame, but from experience. I have been with someone for over 3 years and we have lived together about 3 times on and off. We both know we love each other but go through many ups and downs to make sure you will both make it. Stay over each others place for about a week sometimes to adjust first if you do decide to move in. It will help out tremendously. Good luck.
2006-10-26 07:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone once told me "Even a crazy person can hold it together for 6 months". Give it 6 months, if they don't go crazy on you before then, live and let live together.
...Don't let a financial situation determine your level of love...I add that because a lot of people make emotional descisions based on their finances at the time...money will come and go, true love with make it through regardless.
2006-10-26 07:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I definatly think that it is too early to move in with eachother. Besides how do you know that he is the one? I believe that you only move in with the person that you are dating after you get married. There is no way to know if he is the one unless you are married to him.
Peace
2006-10-26 07:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is definitely to soon to let him move in. You'll find out soon enough, if he is in fact THE ONE. Moving in changes everything. Give it a chance and where you guys stand, if you still feel the same way then maybe it was meant to be.
2006-10-26 07:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think two months is too early also. You can not know enough about him at this stage. If he is really the one, he will be around.
2006-10-26 07:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is way too early for him to move in!
2006-10-26 07:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My bf and I moved in together after three months and we have been together for almost two years. Only you can answer this question really.
Good Luck
Peace and Blessings
2006-10-26 07:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by Amaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way to early.
2006-10-26 07:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋