I've never been to a romantic relationship. Whenever I think I'm liking someone, I start to pull away. Am i afraid to commit? Am I being too careful? What's wrong with me?
2006-10-26 07:04:43 · 7 answers · asked by speak_your_mind 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand how you are feeling. My boyfriend is going into the Air Force in 10 months and I am falling in love with him. This is the first time that I have ever statrted to fall in love with someone before and he is leaving. It would be easier to leave him now then in 10 months when I will like him even more, I always find my self thinking. But I have decided to keep going with this relationship and see what happens to us. It is very natural to start to pull away when you find someone that you like. You are afraid of being hurt and rejected, it is hard to commit to someone. So these feelings that you have are very normal. but you need to try and just be you and let the other person get to know you. Good luck, and God Bless!
Peace!
2006-10-26 07:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was there a point in time when you didn't pull away and got hurt? If that is true then you are trying to protect yourself. Self preservation is all.Can be subconscious but at least you realize you are doing it and that is the first step to fixing anything. Don't miss out on love or the love of your life b/c of this.
2006-10-26 14:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by oneluv1169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, sweetie! It will happen when the time is right, trust me! You cannot be too careful when it comes to protecting yourself! I did the same thing after I had a really bad break up, I could not get close to someone for 3 years' everyone I started to date & experience feelings for, it was nothing for me to turn those feelings off. It just takes time & the right person... It will happen! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-26 14:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are affraid dont be. Love is all about romantacy and loving.Maybe you are afrraid to commit but why? If is a good relationship or even if is not always give your best. All the relationshis that you get to have are not going to end up in marrirage. Dont think just do it.
2006-10-26 14:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are afraid of rejection. Fight those urges to pull away and take a chance! You'll be much happier (even if they say no) because then you'll know and not have to wonder whether you guys could've gotten together.
2006-10-26 14:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are afraid to commit because of the fear of rejection.
2006-10-26 14:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♥PopLock&DropIt♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lack cofinence. . go for it . but don't ware your heart on a sleeve . in other word's be his or her friend first and let nature take its course .
2006-10-26 14:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by single-rose@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋