It's been 2 months since i've been sad and crying all the time. At first i thought it was because of school then i thought it was because of me getting ditched by my crush and then i started being scared of death and all sort of things. I went to a doctor n she said i should do yoga, it didn't really help. My grand ma is also very sick and my cousin did a terrible accident and was an inch away from death. I don't know what to do i can't control this anymore and it hurts too much i really want it to stop but it just doesn't and nothing seems to help even talking to others doesnt help...plz do something
2006-10-26 06:34:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
My guess is that your dr is a GP. She saw all the stress you're under & figured yoga would help. Looks like it didn't do enough. A GP has little training in psycology. I suggest you talk to a counselor or Psy Doc. Sometimes just talking to someone (who is trained in dealing with depression) helps. Someone trained in psycology can make a proper diagnosis and help you recover.
Remember, you're not alone. Help is available.
2006-10-26 06:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Celt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress has a very negative impact on the body. From the sounds of it you are under a large amount of it. What I'd suggest is go see your doctor and ask about Effexor XR. It will help your mood elevate and you can then priortize your stress. Look at what is stressing you out. Think of it like this: Everyone has a "backpack" they carry throughout life. Along the way we tend to pick up rocks of stress and place them in our backpack. After a while this backpack becomes so full that we are not able to cary it anymore and we crumble under the weight of those rocks. At different times we must stop and unload this backpack in order to continue our journey. Take some time and take the rocks out one at a time and see whose name is on it? For example: your cousin in the accident, he was an inch away from death, but did not die. That rock more than likely would have the doctor's and surgeons names on them. They are competent and will take care of your cousin so take that rock out and give it to those doctors. It does not mean you do not care about your cousin, it just relieves you of the responsibility of his care and let the doctors do what they do best. You just be the cousin, offer love and support. Do you see what I'm driving at? Just look at your rocks and determine if they really should be in your backpack or someone else's pack. Grandma is sick, she's aged I imagine and has lived a good life to this point. Who should carry your "grandma" rock? My suggestion is let the Lord carry that one and there will be one less rock in your pack. Do this from time to time and you will be amazed at how much lighter your burdens will be. It works, I do it quite often myself.
2006-10-26 13:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by swomedicineman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have sevier depression. Which from your description would make sense. I would recommend going to see a doctor and getting on some meds. I suffer from the same thing and I couldn't live a day without my meds. They really help. Good luck I know what you are going through. Let me know if there is anything I can do to help you.
2006-10-26 13:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i just want u to know all of us have someone sick at home or from our parents or relatives thats normal n all of us makin accidents we made before n god knows if theres more accidents n each one of us had a heart break before n some hard time at school n ur ok u don need anything u just need to b wiser n stronger this is life beside am sure u still young n life will prove to u that ur were wrong u dont need to cry n feel the the fear from what n who? comon smile laugh n pray to god n all this will b as memories later ok
2006-10-26 13:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you're depressed. I suggest either talking to your doctor about depression or going to a different doctor. Just know that everything will be fine one day. It may be difficult now, but it will get better. I don't know anything about you, so I don't know your religion, but I'm Baptist and I say pray about it. My mom always tells me to "Let go and let God." If you don't understand this, email me and I'll try to explain better. I'll pray for you and I wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-26 13:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by eyesthatshine88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a different Doctor, one who listens to you and wants to help you feel better. Keep going to different docs untill you find the right one. No one on here is going to be able to diagnose you properly. Hang in there and just beleive that things will get better.
2006-10-26 13:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are suffering a bout of major depression and it's okay. Your plate has been very full and remarkably, you'll speak with us about it. Go to the family doctor, explain things, and perhaps he may need to medicate you until this "storm" passes. God Bless, Aria
2006-10-26 13:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by Aria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who can change how you feel. If you are overwhelmed (and it happens to everyone at some point) then go see a therapist to help you through this rough spot.
2006-10-26 13:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's maybe your doctor that doesn't know your feeling as you described it ,i mean change your doctor,and try to think about other stuff and things in your life that makes you happy,try tp forget about your sadness,be positive
2006-10-26 13:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by pinkygirl m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a pychologist.
2006-10-26 13:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jegis H. Corbet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋