A guy I worked with is leaving and I don't think I'm ever going to see him again. I've really liked him for a while but can't tell if he feels the same way or not. Today was the last day we were working together and he didn't even say goodbye to me when he left, which makes me think he doesn't feel anything for me. Should I tell him anyway?
2006-10-26 06:27:11 · 40 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can you tell him if you are never going to see him again????...maybe all you were after was a quick fumble in the toilets but I think you should aim a bit higher than that..Im sure if the guy liked you he would have acknowledged you..find someone who knows you exist.
2006-10-26 06:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would say that work relationships are just that :Made for Work. However, if you think that there can be a true relationship, give it a shot.
But ask yourself: 1) Do you and this guy ever talk outside of the office
2) Do you have his telephone number or does he have yours
3) Has this individual ever expressed himself in a flirtatious manner while at work or did both of you go out for lunch, dinner, or anything outside the office
If you cannot answer at least one of these questions, you may be wasting your breath.
Good Luck!
2006-10-26 06:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by vwarnsley_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him... From experience I think you should tell him. He probably didn't say anything to you because he probably feels the same way... You know how guys are.
from experience:
I have this boy that i like so so much, right now I think i'm in love with him... I might be.. I just can't identify my feelings for him. His name is Enrique. And he's still in school with me, but even though I've told him how I felt already.. I'm not sure he's fully got it.
I don't want to be the one to say something at the end of the year or if he transferred elsewhere....
And I like this boy so much... but the 'Love' isn't coming out of my mouth, eventually I'll tell him...
2006-10-26 06:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Salemn Hernandez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In all truth, what would you have to lose?
If you are unlikely to see him again, even if he can't return your feelings, at least you will know you opened a door and gave him a chance. If he has been feeling in some way similar and yet not sure how you felt, it may be the word he was waiting for. (After all, he might have supposed you were not free or willing to get in any way involved.)
Go for it, girl! Hope you get the outcome you want.
2006-10-26 06:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have his phone number wait until next week and call him to see how he's doing and tell him to keep in touch and then say maybe we can hang out sometimes. Don't tell him yet because we woman wear our feelings on our sleeve and then we get hurt play safe and see where it goes cause if feelings are mutual he will come on to you when you guys are alone .P.S make sure you look exxxxtra cute when you see him . Good-luck
2006-10-26 06:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by gail w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, am sorry to say but if he had any feelings for you he would have at lest ed said good by, you may not think it now but there are plenty of fish in sea, there is someone out there for everyone you just have to find him/her. i really do believe that. Be happy and move one to the next page in your life. Have some fun finding Mr right, just be save.
2006-10-26 06:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by Sally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope... if you want to flatter him, make him feel good about himself, make him feel like God's gift and then receive 'oh, thanks but no' answer, go ahead do it. You won't gain anything out of telling him, he'll be the big headed one. Look if he felt a tiny bit something about you, he would at least come and say goodbye, shake your hand, wouldn't he? case closed! I say
2006-10-26 06:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by better late than never 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you have enjoyed working with him and will miss having him around and tell him to keep in touch. If he is in the least bit interested, he will make an effort to keep in touch with you.
2006-10-26 06:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by alid_mc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive always been the girl to say go for it.. what have you to lose really? i mean so what if he's not into you really.. you can go find another boy ...
but i have to say with some honesty.. if he didn't even say bue to you when he left after our last shift of working together maybe a sign thats he's not into you
2006-10-26 06:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life is short sweetie, If you're not strong enough to come out with it, then suggest that you go for a drink once he settles in his new job. If he says no, then no loss. If he says yes then yipee!
Good luck hun! x
2006-10-26 06:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by Dakina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋