even though I started out slow with him,cuddling 4 a month,1 night he took it far we were kissing passionately,I think it scared him off, I was his first g/f, he said he had no idea what he was doing and his mind was going a mile a minute.that was the end of January.he didn't call me back.August I told him I didn't hate him,he seemed shocked,stared at me 4 20 secs,said he had 2 go,btw a cashier and his brother were right there.a few nights ago he came into my work with his father,I looked at him and I swear he said hi 2 me but since I wasn't sure I looked down.I think his father looked back at me b4 exiting the store.2 nights ago he ran in2 the store, got something quick,ran back out,saw me and kept looking at me as he was running 2 his car,looked like he wanted 2 say hi but he was either scared that I was mad at him or that I'd reject him. what do you think?What should I do next time I see him?I really have strong feelings 4 his still.
2006-10-26 06:24:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 24,he's 22
2006-10-26 06:55:43 · update #1
I would get his attention next time you see him and let him know how you feel. It never hurts to be upfront with somebody that way you'll know after that whether he is scared of you or rejecting you.
2006-10-26 06:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by smartiebc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-28 23:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Hi. It doesnt hurt. maybe he is afraid that you will not respond to him the way he wants. Its all give and take but the problem is that no one ever wants to start. Next time you see him smile at him. He might get frightened (because he cant believe that you are smiling at him) or he might just smile back. Start out slow. Work up to the hellos and take it from there. Show him that you dont hate him and you still think of him. slowely he will see you dont hate him and who knows what might happen next!
2006-10-26 06:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by impala11419 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this sounds like hell, and you sound very young. I don't think either of you are really ready to be in a relationship. If things went "too far" one night, you might need to simply face the fact that things were what they were, and nothing more. If you can't physically move one, because you keep seeing him, try to at least mentally move on. Try to write down what you learned from this experience so you can keep the knowledge.
2006-10-26 06:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rose of the Valley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl move on.. say hi and smile. but if he wants to talk to u let him come to you.
2006-10-26 06:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋