why is it that most mixed (half black, half white) women that are middle class and have a little bit of money, hate going out with black guys? Do they think that they are bettter than blacks?
2006-10-26 06:20:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The UK has a very large proportion of mixed-race relationships, something we can all be proud of. The fact is; most people choose partners that are a good match socially, physically and economically. These factors are more important than race. I'm sure if a Afro/Carribean man had the 'right' goals & aspirations, he could easily get the women described.
2006-10-26 06:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, they likely just haven't met the right guy. Sometimes, it has a lot to do with how the women are approached. Some men use tacky pickup lines Others use profanity every second word and its offencive to most women. Different people are attracted (or not attracted) to different things. If they tell you they hate going out with black men it is unlikely snobbery, but rather bad experience. If you speak to any woman in a polite and respectful manner you will score points with her.
Keep in mind though that there is pigment discrimination . Historically, light skinned people have faired better in society than dark skinned people. There used to be be a private club in New Orleans where to become a member of it a brown paper bag was held next to the skin, if the person's skin was lighter than the bag they were accepted if not they were out. I hope this is not the case with you
Best wishes.
2006-10-26 06:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's another of those wonderful generalizations! What makes you think that rich, middle/upper class mixed women hate dating black men? Has one turned you down for a date? That doesn't make a trend, or a statistical outcome. It just means you got turned down for a date.
Before you make a statement like this, you should be prepared to support it with a well-founded survey or study, that polls a large number of rich, middle/upper class mixed women. And I'm willing to bet a whole dollar you haven't done any such thing.
2006-10-26 06:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by old lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that all mixed women feel this way but, hey, look at the rep that somw of the black men out there has given the black man! You won't work, you just want to find a woman to take care of you.... You have a pretty big stereotype to overcome. I am a black woman and I have resorted to dating outside of my race because black men look at me as a catch and then want to use me and I am tired of that mess! I'm not giving up on the black man.... I'm just putting you guys in "time-out" for bad behavior:) Talk to you later sweetie!
2006-10-26 06:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a pretty gross overgeneralization and I can't I've seen it born out in fact. Of the biracial (black/white parentage) women I know about 1/2 to 2/3 date black men almost exclusively. That may be changing as people become less hung up on race. Maybe you're just not pulling the women you want and trying to blame it on factors that aren't personal to you.
2006-10-26 06:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Rob B 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am a biracial woman and I am middle class. I have only dated black men in my life but as I get older I find it increasingly difficult to find a single, intelligent brother that can keep up with a sister such as myself. That being said I haven't given up yet so I have to disagree wtih you. You may have more luck in landing a good woman of any race if you quit with the stereotypes and learned to look at each individual for who they are.
2006-10-27 08:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by BOBFAN 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i am bi-racial not mixed (half black half white) and upper middle class and i don't hate dating black men -- i hate dating loser men especially black men who are idiots
sort of a twisted question - as far as being better than blacks funny i'm not considered white but then i have blacks who tell me i am not really black because i have a white parent
so when i ignore people it is not that i think i am better it is simply i am tired of trying to fit in with ignorance which comes off as better than someone when really its plain *** tired of bs
2006-10-26 06:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't go out with black guys just simply because the one's I've met are too agressive for me. If I say no thank you, that's what I mean. I don't like for a man, any man, to keep pressing me for a date hoping I'll give in and change my mind. That just ends up irritiating more than anything.
2006-10-26 06:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by wenpeek 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ive thought about this and maybe why is because usually they have a white father and he is the first male figure in their life and the first man they love, unconciously that persists in their mind love=white guy. I think in Halle Berry's case she probably emulated/looked up to her white mother and also had bad experiences with black men I think. But I never consider colour differences I think of cultural differences.
2016-05-21 22:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i do i never liked black people even through i'm half black and white, portugal. I guess it's the way they act. I really beleive that the reason we can't stand black people is because they are really to pushy and a lot of other things.
2006-10-26 06:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋