2006-10-26 06:06:17 · 12 answers · asked by manders359 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many men find that their pregnant wives are not sexy any more. Talk to your partner and ask what you can do to reconnect with your relationship.
2006-10-26 06:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! girl me and ALL my girlfirends went thru this! Men are just so weird. They act different, dont want to be intimate any more, think your body is so different, your different etc.... my husband and I had sex 3 times the 9 months I was pregnant, I am not kidding. Finally at the very end when I had it and asked him if I was just that hidious to him he admitted that it felt wrong to have sex while there was a baby in there. He said it just wasnt right, so I respected that and was relieved that it wasnt because he thought I was some disgusting whale. Just ask him nicely without pointung fingers or blaming, ask him if something about you being pregnant makes him uneasy, he could also be stressed about the fact that an actual baby is coming, ya know like $$ stuff
2006-10-26 13:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are probably not imagining it. If you did not talk to him about getting pregnant, he probably did not want you to. He is trying to figure out if he wants to stay or leave altogether. You should have thought this one out and used birth control until you were sure he really wanted to start a family. Just because you were with him in a relationship did not mean it was okay with him for you to get pregnant. Most men are not ready to become fathers until they are financially able to take care of a family. This much responsibilty makes them feel trapped, and it is a life long responsibility bringing a child in the world.
2006-10-26 13:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be you or perhaps the mood swings that you are experiencing lately. This is a time when he should be there to comfort you, not shy away because he can't figure out his feelings. Check to see if anything else is wrong with him, it could be something deeper than what he is/isn't saying.
2006-10-26 13:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably scared. It's a big deal for the guy too. He doesn't know what to do with his emotions they are probably the most intense feelings he's ever faced. Try to reach out and listen. Don't take it personally.
2006-10-26 13:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by somethingelse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he happy you are pregnant? Are you still having sex? We need more information. He probably is kind of overwhlemed by the idea that he is going to become a Dad.
2006-10-26 13:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow - tougth time - so many changes ...is it your first - if so TALK TALK TALK and do let him tell you he is Horny if he is - even if you are not into that right now.
I was a basket case at that time because of the real responsibilities I was facing as a to be DAD
2006-10-26 13:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by bostongoodguy2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
more tthan likely its just you on the other hand alot of men seem to do that because we as women can be so harmonal during pregnancy that they are afraid of stressing us out.
2006-10-26 13:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is you, preganacy makes women completely nuts with the hormone changes.
2006-10-26 13:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man is pregnant, no wonder he's distant. He has a lot to think about.
2006-10-26 13:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋