Even though i am seperated from her mother and only see her once a week as she is at collage and doing very well
2006-10-26 06:01:47 · 52 answers · asked by colin050659 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well i left home at 16 i got my own flat and more or less begged furniture from friends and family i managed very well,but i did have 3 jobs on the go at the time,as long as you and yr ex can keep a close eye on her and help her all you can i cant see no reason why not.
Mind you being a parent myself now i would find it a little scary letting either of my 2 leave but as long as they were close by there is nothing i could do about it.
2006-10-26 07:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by robertboozychic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She seems like a very independent girl and maybe it would be the best thing ever for her, or maybe not. She is only 16 and has the rest of her life to spend being independent from her parents. Sit her down, write a list of pros and cons and try and dissuade her, If shes convinced that its what she wants and you are convinced that she can hold her own then perhaps give it a trial period in safe surroundings. Make her aware that its a big bad world and have your say, if you don't think appropriate then let her know that. Shes not 18 yet and your say still counts.
2006-10-26 07:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your daughter's maturity level. If she has a good head on her shoulders, the means to support herself financially, and a supportive family if she fails I would say yes. I became emancipated at 16 and moved out on my own. For me it was the best decision. I had complete support from my parents and they helped get me started on the right foot. I finished High School, Graduated with a 4.0 and a BFA in Graphic Design from a Prestigious Private College, and now I am Married and am starting a family. Some people simply need complete independence and the ability to learn hands on. Others are simply not ready for that serious dose of reality. It really all depends on the child.
2006-10-26 06:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question U should ask her is where will she be staying? With whom? Why? and the final thing U should ask is yourself. Do U trust her? If all the answers are positive, then why not? If not, then look for other alternative. This is because, a person at her age is very vulnerable, easily influenced, exposed to many risks, taking advantage at, and very curious about life, relationship,society and many other environmental events and influences. U may allow her, but, keep watch and pay surprise visits frequently. Know her friends and with whom she goes out with. This does not mean U are over protected her or take control of her, it is just to make sure that she is safe and do the right things. Otherwise bring her over to your place.
2006-10-26 06:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by atbt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't let her move out to be on her own! She may be in college, but that's only another grade in school. I don't think that a 16 year old is mature enough to be on their own yet. She may not like the decision now, but she'll thank you for it down the road when she's old enough to have gained a little more insight to what life is really about.
2006-10-26 06:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jillybeanyweiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she is only 16 and needs her parents if she knows it or not.
If she is in college and doing well she still needs adults to help balance her life. She is going to school with people who are over 18 and as a 16 year old this could be a huge issue for her, it would be easy for her to be taken advantage of.
2006-10-26 06:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by sharing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is your daughter going to look after herself,paying her bills and food etc.I have two seventeen year olds at collage and both of them have part time jobs as well and they would never be able to afford it.Sit with your daughter and ask her what her plans are and if she has really thought it out then I would be inclined to let her try.After all she can always come back home.Good luck
2006-10-26 06:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you could compromise by saying yes but she has to live near by, & also that she has to house share with other college friends, so they can look out for eachother. Also explain the reality of living alone, it aint all roses & delight, there is rent to paqy every month & bills!!! and food...obvious things a sixteen year old may not know, you never know she may be put off by that alone, and in that case tell her to wait til shes 18 when she has a good job & wages to pay bills with!! Good luck x
2006-10-26 08:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would personally not let my daughter move out at 16. She may be smart, but she still has limited experience in the world. For many college is a time of experimentation and partying and I wouldn't want her in that kind of environment without any supervision at her age.
2006-10-26 06:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by cldb730 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of 16 yr. old is ready, where you at 16? These are answers you shouldn't have to look up. You know the answer, be more then a father. Be a Dad! I think that should tell, you how important her future is.(Major) Get pass the hormonal bull****. Establish a more positive example: answer http// Hell No! Who' her Daddy?
2006-10-26 06:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by jrneytime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋