If your boyfriend told you "well most of the time I think your feelings are wrong" in a fight?
2006-10-26 06:00:10 · 19 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would say that he is insecure. if he doesn't change and allow you to be YOU, then you have some serious decisions to make.
2006-10-26 06:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were in a fight. I've said a million things I didn't mean during a heated argument just to get a rise out of the other person. Don't get too worked up over it. Actions speak louder than words- so as long as he does seem to care about your feelings your relationship seems normal. Just make sure not every fight you get into involves slinging insults.
2006-10-26 13:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by AGNY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were in a fight i wouldnt worry too much about it, ask him when the 2 of you are getting along great, you know those intimate times that you feel you can say anything and hes there behind you. my husband and i have been married for almost 2 yrs now and well when we argue, we argue big lol. hes told me many thigns i have gotten really upset at the things he tells, for example last night he told me that ive completly ruined his life. but he was just angry and wanted to feel like the "bigger" person. hes told me before that this is his purpose and he really doesnt mean it, and i know for a fact that this is true, he loves me just as much as i love him.
2006-10-26 13:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by princess_sofie_85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a fight people will say a lot of stuff. Some things they say are their true feelings and some they just say in anger. You need to decide what is true and what is false. Communication is your best defense, learn to ask questions of him and get straight answers.
2006-10-26 13:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably initially be pretty upset, but after I calmed down, I would consider what he was saying. That's one where you have to read between the lines and listen to your gut. I'd be thinking that my BF was looking for an excuse to breakup if he said something like that to me, but I don't know your circumstances.
2006-10-26 13:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would kinda be *issed off but not to the point to where i would break up with him. we would have to sit and talk about it so that he would know how i felt about it. because he prolly isn't right all the time. gurl don't take mess from nobody. especially from a guy that thinks that he is always right. but good luck gurl.
2006-10-26 13:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by tye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's invalidating your feelings and basically saying "your feelings do not matter to me". VERY RUDE. How would he feel if you didn't care about his feelings. I don't know the situation, but sounds like you could do better!
2006-10-26 13:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by SadToday22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very mad. Who is he to determine whether your feelings are correct? They are YOUR feelings... If this guy has no respect for your feelings, then why are you giving him your time and admiration?
2006-10-26 13:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by chocmartinigrl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad but yet understanding because everyone has their own opinion!
2006-10-26 13:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by Cortney DaFashioness Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, "My feelings are never wrong. They're just different from yours." If he doesn't respect my opinion, even if he disagrees with it, I get pissed.
2006-10-26 13:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋