I'm a 28 y/o str8 male and I work in a gay bar. Why is it so hard to believe that I'm str8? I found that I seem to be making tons more money. Is something wrong with that?
2006-10-26 05:54:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Be comfortable with who you are. Accept yourself. And so what if some people think your gay, because you work in a gay bar. What was the first, and original meaning for the word "gay" anyway? Happy. And gay people are not afraid to express their feelings and emotions. Expression is better than bottling up feelings all the time, and having resentment, anger and rage.
If your making the money you need to pay bills, eat out at times, and buy some nice clothes, etc. for yourself - Great!! There is Nothing wrong with working at a gay bar. If your straight working at a gay bar as you say, then simply be comfortable being You.
2006-10-26 06:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with people's stereotypes about gay bars I'm guessing. Of course it doesn't make you gay....I would guess a gay bar isn't much different from a normal bar...it's just a place where most of the men there are gay...and you're a man there. Perhaps that is how people see it?
2006-10-26 05:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Elminster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHy do you care what other people think? Don't worry. You make better money than anyone else anyways....they're just jealous b/c they don't have the n**s to work in a gay bar like you do....
2006-10-26 06:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you work in a gay bar and are straight and therefore unattainable by the patrons of the bar...
it's called wishful thinking.
nothing wrong with a straight guy working in a gay bar. more people should think like you do.
2006-10-26 05:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. It's no different than a gay person going into a straight bar. That doesn't all the bartenders gay.
2006-10-26 06:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by whyme? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should anyone care where you work? If you are making money, supporting yourself, and paying your bills, it's no ones business what you do for a living.
2006-10-26 05:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as what you are making pays the bills and you enjoy your job then stop worrying about what others think.
2006-10-26 05:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, not at all. its just you're in an environment where you're pretty much expected to be gay. you are not the norm!
have fun and i'm sure you get some great tips
2006-10-26 06:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!! live it up and have fun with your job as long as your safe making money and loving your job GO FOR IT!!!
2006-10-26 05:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by Majenta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-make yo dough.
2006-10-26 05:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by sami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋