I'm wondering where to invite a guy that I'm very interested in.... Where would be the best place? I'm back on the track after 5 years of marriage (it ended 2 years ago), so I feel a little bit lost about the men's world. Could you pls help me?
2006-10-26 05:53:26 · 13 answers · asked by Katherina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take him to a public place, like to the movies or something... Try to find what kind of things he likes and relax. Good luck!
2006-10-26 05:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by candywhiteandrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and think of something where the focus isn't on you two interviewing eachother. I like to do a beginner's dance lesson or an amusement park. Any kind of a lesson seems to be good fun...you kind of automatically bond when you are learning something new together and then it is easier to be yourself.
A comedy club can be good too. Usually they get kind of dirty which can make for an uncomfortable night, but if you don't mind a potty mouth you will learn a lot about him and what he finds funny.
If you are nervous, stay away from just dinner or anything were you have to talk. I know you want to talk and get to know eachother, but a lot of times it feels forced and you don't make a good impression and like I said, if you are nervous it will be even less enjoyable. So do something where you two talking is not the focus.
2006-10-26 06:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure!
Getting to know someone is easy when the environment you're in is relaxed and entertaining.
Something simple as coffee could be a great way to break the ice. Go for a walk or just hang out at your favorite bar. If it's relaxed will the interaction.
2006-10-26 05:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you like it quite go to a nice restraunt if you want noise go to a club and loosen things up. And good for you for going on after a 5 year divorce most women dont think they can go on you are proof that there are other great men out there and that life will go on. Well I hope the two of you have fun on your date and good luck.
2006-10-26 05:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lunch is always safe. Maybe talk about a new place or your fav place to go and ask if he's been there. Go from there.
2006-10-26 06:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him some place he llikes like to a ball game or the movies to see a action movie do something just for him and i hope u do well
GOD BLESS U
2006-10-26 06:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by D-R-L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think ur "typical date" is rite for this...like don't go to the movies or nothing...that would be just another date...ya kno? find something he likes...be adventurous...let him kno ur different than most girls...it'll come to you...just show that u put a lot of time and thought into it and he'll love it! good luck!!!! :]]
2006-10-26 06:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by beachxchicaxmg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just go get a coffe, so you guys can talk, or if you and him are adventurus, just go to a theme park to have fun, spend a day together,etc
2006-10-26 05:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by crazygirl123 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your favorite restaurant
2006-10-26 05:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comedy club, nice pool room, or haunted house
2006-10-26 05:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋