I tried several times to look for HIM but without any results. where, when, and how to find him if I'm a shy person?
2006-10-26 05:49:41 · 21 answers · asked by sun s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The easiest and most simple answer is NOT to look for it. Like your car keys, they are always in the way until you need them or are looking for them. I am a shy guy, and while looking for something, anything, I cannot find it, but the moment I don't look, there it is. A beautiful gal with all the right personalities and everything just appears in the picture. Some call it karma, I call it seeing what is there.
The other answer is to be yourself. Let your personality traits be your guide. Being shy is sometimes admirable, even inviting. If this person you discribe isn't noticing you, sorry to say, it's his loss. There are plenty of singles everywhere looking for relationships, but those who look already have an idea of what they want. Most times someone that does not exist. Hey, wouldn't everyone want them same thing? Men may be looking for independant and figured, women may be looking for rich and involved in her ideas of fun. If these people existed, they would be taken already.
My thought would be to stop searching and see what falls in your lap. Go and find something you enjoy and see what type of people are in those circles for friends. You will be much happier than trying to limit yourself to just this one person. As soon as that person realizes you are no longer as easily available, you might get a big surprise. If not, forget it, but keep in contact something may work out later.
Good Luck.
2006-10-26 06:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Gary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to work out ways to let him find you.
Just a few things that may help :
- Make sure you wear clothes that you like
- Make sure that you like your hairstyle. Maybe you can change it a few times to find out which one really suits you best.
- Smell nice. And I mean nice...not too cheap and not too much !
If you take good care of these things at all times, you'll see that your confidence will go up and it will be more easy to attract the opposite sex.
good luck !
2006-10-26 12:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by Great Muslim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, when you find out IM me! Im looking too.... I really think its a turn on to be alil' shy, men kinda shy away from loud pushy women. But, for real, if you get any good answers let a sista know! Good Luck!
2006-10-26 12:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant just find your dream guy...its tha wierdest thing because i started dating my boyfriend a little over a year ago and man...we didn't like each other at all...for some reason we just kept dating...i mean he barely talked to me and when he did he only talked about himself, he wouldn't do anything a "boyriend" was supposed to do, but after a while he just kept changing and i did too...we just grew on each other and became great companions...now, he is my dream guy. i'm convinced he is "the one" u never kno...but love and ur "dream guy" aren't just things u can pick out...it takes time and remember no one is perfect...u just have to figure out each others love languages! :]]
2006-10-26 12:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by beachxchicaxmg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sugest finding him in a place where you fit in yourself. For instance you wouldnt want to look for him in a club when you like to hang in the library or something like that. Second,your just gonna have to let go of that shyness girl. Get crazy sometimes, make people laugh! Guys love a girl who cracks them up! Good luck!!
2006-10-26 12:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by izy966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it. You will come across him when you are not even looking for it, and you will be much happier that you waited and did not settle for just any dream "boy"
2006-10-26 12:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by Niecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dream boy will come to u one day !
and maybe one normal boy that u dont care him will be special 4 u ! it will be a dream life like me !!! just a joke !!!
2006-10-26 12:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by sadako302 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's out there looking for you, I hope you two can find each other. Good Luck.
2006-10-26 13:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=)) hi remember me? now you're lookin for "the dream boy"? =)) after you broke up with me now your looking for a replacement?
you just have no shame
=))
for the guys ho don't know her: SHE'S THE DEVIL...STAY AWAY FROM HER =))=)) zbye and good luck with your life
2006-10-26 12:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by ady d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be your dream man. I will do anything for you. Just let me know beautiful
2006-10-26 12:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by brandon_fargerson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋