I like this boy and we broke up not too long ago and i want him back so bad. i dont think that he is interested anymore. We broke up with each other and the break up was mutual but i really didnt want to. He had been cheating on me all summer and forgave him but he said he didnt want a realationship. What would you do?
2006-10-26 05:47:26 · 13 answers · asked by angel h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd learn to love myself and forget about the idea of getting back together with someone like you described. He's not going to suddenly value the same things you do (such as fidelity) and looking back is not the way to go. You probably remember some good moments in the relationship, but that doesn't change the facts. Learn from the experience, grow as a person, and get on with your own life. Believe him when he saids he does not want a relationship.
2006-10-26 05:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would acknowledge the difference between "love" and "twisted need." He cheated on you. He doesn't love you. How can you believe that you love him? Perhaps you love the idea of being with him and things actually working out, but they didn't and they wont. He got away with cheating on you. Don't let him think for a minute that he has another chance with you. If you actually got him to "come back" to you, he would do the same all over again. Be glad that you don't have to deal with that and all the hurtful feelings that go along with him again. Learn your lessons and make better choices in the future. Be glad too that you didn't get an STD from him. My ex gave me two incurable STD's in the course of our nearly 5 year relationship, due to his cheating. When I finally got out of the relationship and my thoughts cleared up better, I realized I had to respect myself much more and NOT settle for anything less than what's absolutely important to me in a relationship. You should do the same.
2006-10-26 05:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a boy broke up with you n you want him back in your life you just talk to him about the problem which lead to your break up and if both of you love each other from the heart then he will search a solution to the problem and you will again live a happy life as you live before.
2006-10-26 06:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on is a good thing to do. I know that it hurts when you lose someone that you loved, but in the end, you will see that it was for the best. Seriously, you may want him back, but you will eventually move on. Just give it time, and don't let him know how you feel. You don't need some jerk that is going to cheat on you all the time. Just let him go, as hard as it may be.
2006-10-26 05:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant really say i've been through it but if he cheated then wanted to break up wit u then baby he dont want u no more not to be funny but try ur best to go out and make a new friend (if u know what i mean)and then maybe ur new friend can and will get ur mind off ur ex-boyfriend
2006-10-26 05:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Baby G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if I were you I would forget it. You must face the fact that it is over, as hard and hurtful as that is . Dont look for anyone else for a while, let yourself get over this first. Sorry its a ***** but dont let it rule you for longer than necessary.
2006-10-26 05:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by dobbinesque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you try your best to win him back...he is not interested anymore. Your efforts will be useless. Besides he doesn't sound as such a great catch anyway. Move on.
2006-10-26 05:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by pride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with a guy who cheated on you and clearly doesnt want to be with you this is not your fault some people arent meant to be but that doesnt mean that someday you will be with a guy who wont cheat on you and want to be with you !
2006-10-26 05:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you he didn't want a relationship, then he doesn't want one. He's proven that to you by cheating, so i will say let it be and move on.
2006-10-26 05:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by OE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well either you can move on or keep trying to win him back. If you keep trying to win him back you are just going to be causing yourself more pain.
2006-10-26 05:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋