my ex and i dated for 5 years. he always told me he loved me, told me he wanted to get married, wanted a family, but then cheated on me constintly. why cant they just be man enough to leave if they arent happy? why destroy lives and lie about everything?
2006-10-26 05:43:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like i said, its my ex. so yes, i have done better :) i dropped his sorry *** for a real man!!
go me!!!
2006-10-26 05:52:05 · update #1
he cheated once lied about and i found out, horrible nasty fight and brought the other girl in too to confront him, cause he lied to her too. then years later he did it again and i only found out after we broke up. i know, i shouldnt have kept him in the first place, but he swore he was sorry and he was wrong and it would never happen again and blah blah blah blah. all just a bunch of hot air.
2006-10-26 05:56:18 · update #2
and dont worry, i've got me a great guy we've been together now over 3.5 years. i just thought this place would be a good place to get some insights since i've been reading a lot of posts about someone getting cheated on or whatnot. thanks for all the honest answers peoples!!! *hugs*
2006-10-26 05:58:39 · update #3
It is quite simple. I am a man. I consider myself a good man, and sometimes I have cheated simply because I like the woman I am with but there is another one that I like, too. But this is very hard to understand for a woman, at least for some of them. For some reason, men are extremely attracted by physical characteristics of a woman (face, boobs, legs, hands, etc, etc, etc.). For some reason, even though you are with a very nice woman who you love (because u feel great with here), there is always another one attracting. It is simply men's nature...
What is of course avoidable, is to destroy lives, and harm others for another woman. That is unnecessary.
2006-10-26 05:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well ur right, he SHOULD have been man enough to leave if he wasn't happy. Since, he couldn't be man enough to leave, honey, you should've left. I think guys do that because they consider you (or and female in this situation) to be their "main chick." Cheating isn't a big deal to him as long as he knows that his main chick is faithful and loyal and will always be there to take him back. My advice to you is STOP wondering why he's cheating on you and START looking for someone else who is worthy of your time and love. Don't play yourself like a doormat, cuz he'll walk all over you at any given time.
2006-10-26 05:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just 'cause they can and passive women let them get away with it. The sad part is that's not likely to change. Keep in mind that not all men are the same....it's hard finding anyone of good character, but they do exist. Happy hunting!
2006-10-26 05:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why weren't you woman enough to leave? why buy the cow when the milk is free? classic statements exist for a reason, they are usually still true. think about it. he had someone to take care of his every need and then also someone to take care of his every desire. perfection, especially if it was an allowed behavior.
2006-10-26 05:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by crazy4 bul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey this is a guy speaking and they dont leave because they r to big of a coward or maybe he is cheating on u becuz u areant giving him what he wants ! so put this as #1 anwser
2006-10-26 05:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Brando 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex to men just can mean a physical experience without the caring and sharing that women seem to need
Men like that reduce sex to just fun.
2006-10-26 05:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he sounds like a dog - if they lie and cheat they are not real men - you can do better!! Good luck!!
2006-10-26 05:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by akelaamy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Low self-esteem and insecurity
2006-10-26 05:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we like new and different things. were adventurious dogs. We like a new challenge and new experiences
2006-10-26 05:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they want their cake and to eat it too..im in your same situation so i know how it feels but dont take him back. you dont want to be constantly paranoid.
2006-10-26 05:44:56 · answer #10 · answered by Yenny V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋