help me on this.....please
2006-10-26 05:35:22 · 31 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it can be......
2006-10-26 05:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe jealousy is simply a sign of insecurity or envy. And this applies to both sexes, not just females. There are individuals who cannot find themselves happy if they see someone having something better than theirs (Envy). There are individuals who do not trust their significant other (especially relating to having affairs or cheating) which makes the other person jealous (Insecurity).
If the person or mate you're with is making you jealous (say by flirting with other women), then that person is not being considerate towards you, your feelings, your relationship. If you are feeling jealous towards another woman (or all women your mate socializes with), then you feel insecure with your relationship, because you feel as if "woman x" is trying to steal your mate away from you. But remember "it takes two to tango" so if you're mate is also flirting back with said woman, then as I said before, he's not being considerate towards your feelings or taking your relationship as seriously as you would like him to.
Bottom line, it all boils down to trust. Do you or can you trust him wholeheartedly? If you can't trust him past your eyesight, then you will never ever stop feeling jealous.
Unfortunately, no one can tell you how to make your heart feel nor is there a drug that can make it stop. In any case, I wish you good luck with your relationship, and may it become the right one for you!
2006-10-26 14:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Rudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on why would be jealous. If you are with someone that you really care about and that really cares about you then you have no reason to be jealous. If you are not really happy with yourself or the person that you are with then you will become jealous. If you are jealous about something that someone has then yes it is wrong, us that energy to do things to better yourself and get the things that you want and be happy for other people for achieving great things in their life.
2006-10-26 12:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by DC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humans were born with the natural instict to be jealous, so no, it's not wrong for ANYONE to be jealous. but then theres the question of is it rational jealousy? or is the person being irrational? you have to look at every situation differently, you can't generalize with jealousy. at the same time, in a relationship, you should really be picky with what you are jealous of, dont be jealous of everything, but DO be jealous! jealousy definitly shows your partner that you care about him.her, otherwise, you wouldnt be jealous!
2006-10-26 12:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by Motti _Shish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all to be jealous. How you handle that jealousy could be right or wrong. Everyone has times when they feel the same thing. Use your head and be patient and you will come out of it just fine.
2006-10-26 12:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by matters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it depends on what you are jealous of..If you two aren't dating or anything and your just friends then that might be a little silly to be jealous. But if you two are dating,married, or engaged than you have every right to be jealous! But as long as its not overbearing like when he talk to every women you start turning green..You have to have valid reasons..And worthy suspicions..Don't be jealous because he talks to his mom or sister everyday..So that's what I mean when I say to have valid reasons to be jealous
2006-10-26 12:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by poetchicka2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the situation. Obviously, if your sig other is getting hot and heavy flirting with someone else, then you have the right to be even angry. Sometimes though, it is just something we need to get over. It took me a long time to find a guy that I was secure in my relationship with. Now I dont really mind if he glances at other girls, haha sometimes I point out cute ones to him, and its vice versa with him. We are secure enough with each other to not feel threatened.
2006-10-26 12:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by musicgurl1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...I think it just shows how much you actually care about a person. Some people like to know you are jealous, it lets them know you really like them. But don't go too far. If you act paranoid it could be very annoying.
2006-10-26 12:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never wrong to jealous, but when your jealousy effects your relationship, then you need to reevalutate. Jealousy is a natural human emotion.
2006-10-26 12:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
JEALOUS is a feeling.
All people CAN have that feeling sometimes.
There IS NOT anything wrong or right thing about feelings.
2006-10-26 12:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by Zuoi bu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is an emotion that both men & women can have. It isn't a pleasant emotion and one that should be controlled, but it happens. So no, it's not wrong, but it's also not desirable.
2006-10-26 12:36:56 · answer #11 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋