My best friend says he doesn't feel the way he used to. He says he used to love me, but now cares deeply. Apparently, I hurt him. When I'm mad at him, he blows up my phone. Does he really love me?
2006-10-26 05:31:52 · 6 answers · asked by So far away 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fear. When you're mad you act differently like you are going to leave him.. He's afraid of losing you.. so he calls more often.
2006-10-26 05:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cares about you and doesn't want you to be mad at him. In fact, he can't stand for you to be upset with him. Can't say whether or not he wants romance but one way to find out would be to distance yourself. Don't pick up your phone every time he calls or agree to make plans with him every time he wants to. Busy yourself with other things, even if it's just taking a shower or watching t.v. You don't have to tell him what your plans are. Let him wonder a little. Nothing saying that you can't casually date another guy or two in the meantime. Just be prepared for the possibility that your friend is telling you the truth in that he doesn't feel the way he used to about you. Respect yourself enough not to let yourself want what you can't have and be glad for the friendship, unless it's hurting more to be friends and you're just waiting on the sidelines for him to "realize that he really does love you." If that's the case, better to cut ties altogether, at least for a while.
2006-10-26 12:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he calls more when you're mad coz he cares. the question of whether he really loves you or not cannot be judged just by how many time he calls you. the one who know whether he really love you is you, himself and God. make the right decision...dont waste and dont be wasted.
2006-10-26 12:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by kachengz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if lovesu he would take you a shooping mal and propose to you if there are oranges ther
if not i can see the ponit
so pls dont do it as the cars will square wheels will never hve punchters
obnly if i knew id get them painted green with purple stripes
but then i know you cant unless your tall and wear ballet shoes
2006-10-26 12:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
answer to your question, he cares.
2006-10-26 12:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by Promise09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
2006-10-26 12:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by green eyed lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋