2006-10-26 05:28:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Peta the Flirt Coach here.
The purpose of the first date is to decide if you want a second date! It's an ideal opportunity for you to listen to those gut instincts. Sometimes if we are really attracted to someone it's a gene thing.. no not the Levi's but the hard-wiring that makes us drawn to someone because our genes matched together would make strong babies.
It shows itself in lust. Beware of this on the first date. If you really fancy the pants off them..don't let your genes run a way with you. Use the first date to ascertain whether they are right for you.
To prepare for the date, first check your yes/no signals. Make sure you know what signals you get in your gut area when you know something is right for you. Even more important know the signals that say 'warning'. Check them out by thinking of something you know isn't right for YOU and learn the physical signals your gut gives. BE on the lookout for them on the first date.
The purpose of the first date is to discover more about someone, to check the chemistry and to share something of yourself. Think of yourself as a flower unfolding petal by petal, date by date. Don't give it all away too soon..
And be sure not to put them off by making sure you carry a packet of Trebor strong mints so that when you do start to talk about yourself and get a little closer to listen to him or her... you'll smell fresh...
Peta - The Flirtcoach
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2006-10-27 04:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by flirtcoach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if there's no first date, then there's no chance of anything else happening, is there? All you do on a first date is see whether you like this person on a social aspect and you get to hear a bit about them. You decide what you want to know, but nothing too heavy. Just simple things like what they like doing, family/siblings and basic information. Laugh at jokes even if they're not funny. Then at the end of it you can decide whether they're worth another date and who knows where that can lead.
2006-10-26 05:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by slinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there has to be a first before there can be a second or third, right?1
2006-10-26 05:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you can have a second date?
2006-10-26 05:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how can you go on a second date without a first one? :/
2006-10-26 05:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by obs3ssive beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To see if you wanna go on a second date.
2006-10-26 05:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to see if you like them. if you do, then you plan a second date. if you still like them, plan a third date and so on...
2006-10-26 05:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by §eeker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, so you that you can get to know each other well??
Simple enough and hopefully, if you are lucky you might get another date with her!!
2006-10-26 05:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by Doc Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To suss eachother out.
2006-10-26 07:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 C WATS HAPPN ON THE NEXT 1.
I DONT LIKE DOM I JUST WANA ****!!
COOL C XXXOOO
2006-10-26 05:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by SEXYC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋