Why do some guys think it's ok to be in a relationship and say you love your girl, but find it so easy to not call or leave some type of message for three weeks and when the girl gets upset and starts asking quiestions, you seem so surprised at her reaction. Don't you guys think she has a right to be upset and wonder if you have forgotten about her or are cheating? I guess guys and girls do think differently, but if you love someone please be considerate of her feelings and realize all the things that may be going through her mind when she doesn't hear from you or you don't return her calls. Do you guys feel females are just too sensitive? Please answer honestly and seriously.....I really am curious about this. Thanks guys in advance.
2006-10-26 05:14:04 · 6 answers · asked by softlyinspired 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your bf doesn't call you or leave a message FOR THREE WEEKS you're probably dating the wrong guy. That sounds pretty ridiculous to me. Guys do feel that girls are too sensitive about most things, but this isn't one of those situations. You're completely right to react like that.
2006-10-26 05:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by ern_linnell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, that's not Love
How can he say I Love you bet therefor does not even call to see how you are or how was your day so far how was work etc. And you have the right to think what you want of course your going to think he is cheatting or he has totally forgot about you, common no kind of communication for 3-weeks that's a long time for someone in a relationship not to even care for the other half and even call to see how are they!
Guys, Girls, Grandmas, Grandpas, Sisters, Brothers, Aunts, Uncles, Etc. everyone thinks different and has there own opinion and understading of life we all can't think or share the same thoughts if we all did think the same or share same thoughts we would all be happy!!!
And NO, I don't think girls are sensitive!!!
Is just that they care so much for there other half that they can't let a day past to see how was there day, if they are ok, etc. If the guy doesn't call answer your calls etc. is because im sorry to say but you wanted honesty he doesn't care for you!!!
Is time for you to move on honey it seems to me like if your worth allot no jerk like that deserves a sweet caring lovely girl like you!!!
And I think we should all be considerate towards others, and think about everyones feelings we have feelings also would we like are feelings to be played or hurt with no right so think about what you do and treat others because what goes around comes around!!!
Girl you seem to me like if your worth allot don't waist your precious time waiting for a jerk that can even call to see if your ok or even answer your calls move on life is short we have to enjoy every moment out of it!!!
2006-10-26 12:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Help? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I don't think females are too sensititve. Some of us get the idea, that once we go out with you, you'll be there when we want to talk. I know it sounds stupid but, for some guys, thats the way it is. And you really don't wanna be with a guy like that.
2006-10-26 12:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Taco Bomber Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you;re in a real relationship with someone you had best contact them atleast once a day with a little i love you or something
yeah the girl has the right to think thing and if she's smart she'd find him and find out and if he i's cheating to ditch him and find a real man
2006-10-26 12:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys do feel that girls are too sensetive, men should really think about what the girl is feeling.
2006-10-26 12:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks......sure..........maybe some are that dense..........3 weeks.........LOL.
2006-10-26 12:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by donewithyahooanswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋