my guy friend who is 22 wants me to move in with him cause he doesnt like how im living here should i move in with him. and i dont want to live here either what should i do?
2006-10-26 05:11:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i just cant stand living with my mom anymore she is a subern por2gee and i have the money and i apply for 2 jobs i just want to know the best way to tell her and i want to know if he likes me but i dont know how to ask him.
2006-10-26 14:31:09 · update #1
Every teenager wants to leave home. Next thing you know they realize how hard it is living on their own or with a friend and come back home. Before you move you need to sit down and make a list of everything you mom takes care of that will be your responsiblity after you move. It will be a lot more than you think.
If you decide to move, just tell her like a grown up.
2006-10-26 05:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by Patti T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you just need to put him ENTIRELY behind you. You say you loved him but you can do soooooo much better than putting up with an abusive parasite like him. If you are going into nursing your education is going to put so many demands on your time that you really won't have time for a relationship anyway. Do yourself a favor and don't get tangled up in a serious relationship for another 3-4 years at the soonest. Focus on your education and maybe go out on a date now and then for a break from what will be a busy schedule. There will be lots of time for guys and relationships after you have your career in order. Trust me, this is good advice.
2016-05-21 22:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you have to do is ask yourself this questions: are you working? do you make enough money to support yourself? what would be worse living in my house where I know I'm protected or living with someone who I might not know so well (living with a person is not the same as just sharing time with that person) and feel regret afterwards?
OK. you should talk to your mother and tell her if anything is bothering you at home, if she is reasonable she will find a way to make you feel comfortable. sometimes we think that adults never understand us, but they do, in their own way but they do. the least thing that a mother would ever want is to see her young daughter running away from home. so, you should talk to her, see what you can do to fix the situation (if there is one), and stay home girl, when you are so young, there is a lot of confusions on our heads, don't let a confusion destroy your entire life. I know what I'm saying even though I'm only 19.
2006-10-26 05:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are not 100% sure that moving in with him is the right thing to do. That should tell you that it isnt. Living where you are now has been good enough for you for 18 years so what is a few more months or years until you find something you are sure about. Dont burn your bridges if you get what I am saying.
2006-10-26 05:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your money up and do it right, when you move out with no money that is all your going to have from then on out and then you are risking the chance of having to move back in with her. So plan it right have a decent job and some money saved up so you are not depending on others like a boyfriend to pay for everything and use it against you.
2006-10-26 05:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by fyrechick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK! do a lot of it. Sweetheart, at 18, we don't know much about life itself. Talk to a priest or clergyman, believe me they wll give u the right answers/advice. I thought I knew so much at 18, but as life goes on you learn so much, and you think back and say, I wish I had done 'it' this way'. Believe me, your boyfriend would love to have u there with him, but he is only thinking about himself at this time. Are u still in school? At the age of 22, your boyfriend hasn't had much experience in life to be able to protect you financially, what is wrong with the way you live, what problems are u having? Make your life better for your future, think as I said, and you won't be sorry. The best to you.
2006-10-26 05:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move in with him just because you want to move out of your home. Personally if I were you, I wouldn't make any hasty decisions...I'd remain at home, unless there was abuse, until I graduated and go to college.
2006-10-26 05:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he respects you, he shouldn't have asked you to move in so soon. I think you and your mom need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk and let her know how you feel.
2006-10-26 05:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your own place. Send your mom an invitation for dinner at your new place and break the news.
2006-10-26 05:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by cantstandrudeness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 6 months away from all expenses paid , I'm sure you'll be glad to go back home no matter how bad you think you've got it.
2006-10-26 06:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋