When ever we start fooling around I'm always the one to sart it. Thats ok with me, but it would be really cool if she started it. how do i get her to do that?
2006-10-26 05:09:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her. Tell her you would love it if sometimes she would just touch you or kiss you to let you know how she's feeling. She could be shy or hesitant about initiating sex because she's either not experienced or perhaps she is new to sex. But communicating with her will help both of you. Let her know how good it makes her feel when she touches you! Build up her confidence & you will be very happy with your partner!!
2006-10-26 05:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You ask her. Seriously. You can't "hint," you just have to tell her what you want and go from there. I know that seems confrontational but...yeah. You can either talk to her about it when you're not involved in sex or you can try to during foreplay but I highly recommend the former.
2006-10-26 05:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOOOO simple. just ASK her about it next time you are thinking of starting to do it. a lot of girls are shy in bed, and feel that being too forward will put the guy off, they just need to know that you find it SEXY SEXY SEXY when they initiate foreplay.
2006-10-26 05:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go at least a week without initiating sex - if there's noone else she will start. Also, go to askmen.com - the website gives alot of information reference sex. Good luck
2006-10-26 05:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL ILL HELP U WITH THAT ONE CAUSE I AM A FEMALE AND I LOVE TO DO FOREPLAY SOMEWHAT. JUST TELL HER TO DO SOME THINGS THAT'LL TURN U ON IF SHE DOESN'T THEN SHE'S A SHY ONE AND I USED TO BE SHY BUT IM NOT ANYMORE AND I LOVE IT TO DEATH!
2006-10-26 05:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by Prodigy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are really embarrassed to start anything, talk to her about your feelings and you may just get what you are looking for. She has to be comfortable with what is going on and relax, by talking to her about it, it should open her up.
2006-10-26 05:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some research, maybe there is something that you wear or do that turns her on to the point that she would initiate things.
2006-10-26 05:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instruct her. get ur attention from her so that she can start stroking you den you 2 slowly start Foreplay
2006-10-28 21:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by pink-cookies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLAN B--you should initiated it, get her aroused and just walk away and let her come to you.
or
PLAN A--you can tell her it turns you on
2006-10-26 05:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by rich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to start it..well she could be one of those woman who don't like to start...boring! these type of women could end up being not sexual once they have kids..you never know....if she was sexual she's mall u.
2006-10-26 05:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋