I miss my ex-boyfriend. I miss his lips, I miss kissing him, I miss cuddling in his bed. But it never went further than that, we always kept our clothes on, cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. He was 24, lots of previous relationships while I'm 20 and he was my first boyfriend and first kiss. It was only a month, but felt longer cuz we saw each other a lot.
I guess he may have left due to lack of sex, but I'm still not 100% over him. But I don't get it cuz he liked how I was so pure and unique. Also, a lot of guys hit on me and some people even think I look like Angelina Jolie so I don't get why he would rather be with a skank who puts out than a pure, beautiful girl like me?
Why do you think he left? and yes, I have a good personality, he said I was the sweetest girl.
By the way, he still contacts me on msn sometimes 'just to say hi' but I don't see his point when he dumped me?
2006-10-26 05:02:09 · 19 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it may not have been b/c of the sex at all, maybe there were other things, maybe he felt you were immature on some issues or maybe you were too much woman for him to deal with. I love the fact that you're waiting til marriage, I am extremely proud that there is still someone in this world that has common sense and good morals. I know it may hurt but move on with your life sweety, just be careful and don't wear your heart on your sleeve.
2006-10-26 05:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that lack of sex was the problem, then you were not meant for each other. Your priorities are different than his. It would have been a big problem later. For example, if his interest was sex, he would have lost interest in you right after the wedding night. Then a lifetime of problems followed by divorce.
If sex was not the problem, then he may say nice things to you just to spare your feelings. Sometimes people just don't match; even if one person thinks things are OK, the other may feel uncomfortable with something.
Last but not least: It could have been just as simple as he was trying to get your virginity, and found out that he was not going to succeed; so he left.
2006-10-26 12:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by jasonheavilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he goes for the skank, that makes him a skank too. He's not worth the pure body, mind and spirit you've held onto for your future husband. Only someone else as pure as you would be able to appreciate you with all their heart. But alas, you seem to be attracted to the bad boy type... that's your own undoing. You know, that kind of thing changes guys. When they realize that all the good girls are attracted to the bad-boy type, they start to turn into that kind of guy. Then there's no good guys left for you to marry when you finally realize your folly.
2006-10-26 12:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rockstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a real heart breaker ..... Do what feels right to you ...trust in your values and what you wanna bring into a relationship......
Just curious here .... do you try on the shoes before you buy them ... how 'bout the pants & shirts .....?
There are alot of people in the world to choose from ...... try to get one who "Fits your needs" prior to buying the long term exclusivity contract......
At you age it can be all about the "getting sweaty" and good luck trying to find a guy whos willing to wait for the total package..... I'm sure there are a few 40 years old virgins out there somewhere ....... I never met any.
Be Safe
2006-10-26 12:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the biological stuff kicked in.. he's 24.. it's not like you're dating a 10 year old. You were different, that's attractive but then he probably realized your "pure" attitude is not working for him. You're better off with a guy who's also trying to be "pure". Personality and looks dont always count. Suck it up and move on.
2006-10-26 12:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't miss something that you never had but for him he has had sex and he might of been missing it. Be glad he left you instead of just cheating on you!
2006-10-26 12:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First baby girl stick to your moral. I'm very proud of you OK.
As for your ex he respect your morel and instead of pressuring you like a butt head would do. He spare you, because he love you.
2006-10-26 12:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by papabear196 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all that he wanted was sex and you didnt want to give it up then thats his won fault for leaving. guys dont understand that sex isnt whats is all about! if he really liked you and wanted to be with you then he would of stuck around until you were ready!
2006-10-26 12:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by lalala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a sex thing. If you are like you say you are many men (myself included) wold be very happy to be with you.
2006-10-26 12:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by c.arsenault 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he's just lookin' for some sex. who the hell NOWADAYS wants to wait for marriage when he probably never wants to get married, until he's like 30?
2006-10-26 12:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋