ok so i went out with my best bud for a year and things ended really bad but we were best friends when we were together more then we were a couple.... we broke up a month ago and i am still not over the break up i like to say i am but i am not..he has a new gf. i want to get over him so bad..... i have seen another guy but he just tries to control me so things arent working out but now my ex has been talking to me a ton and he doesnt know that everything he says makes me want to cry he is just trying to be my friend.. he wants to take me out but he isnt telling his new girl friend and i dont know if he is trying to be friends again or if he has other intentions...
2006-10-26 04:56:13 · 5 answers · asked by bbb h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start finding another best friend and stop talking to you "old' best friend.
There are no such thing as 'friend" between boy and girl. unless he is marry and your gay.
2006-10-26 05:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is having second thoughts about the break up. Maybe he realizes that he had it made before with you once he tasted someone else and realized it wasn't so good. Take is slow and see if anything developes. If it looks like he just wants what you expect vs having a renewed relationship you might want to depart your ways and end it permanently. And by the way when you say you cry when he talks to you he is controlling you and he knows it also and you don't realize it
2006-10-26 12:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you two sounded really close, id let him take you out, but that u want his new gf to know, and remind him that secrets are only gunna get him in trouble. he is more than likely trying to be friends and possibley hopeing for more, hence why hes not telling his gf, Id go out with him, but if he tries anything tell him that u wont no part in him hurting his new gf but that you do really like him. be careful though because it sounds like hes possibley a cheater type.
2006-10-26 12:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by shortie_49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello bbb h,
He wants to just stay friends with you. That's why he doesn't feel that he needs to tell his GF about you. If you want something more, you need to tell him that you do and see what happens from there.
You need to get out more though and meet up with more guys. Get out and be seen and hook up with more people.
--Rick
2006-10-26 12:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel, and trust me getting over the relationship won't be easy. however, he obviously wants you in his life. he just doesn't want to hurt his girlfriends feeling. just go out with him. let him know how you feel, he may feel the same way.
2006-10-26 12:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by *HEiDi!* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋