ok so here's the deal. Ive been in love with a guy friend for over a year, but he doesnt know it. I get mixed signs from him, we have been intimate..but nothing more. We are really good friends, he always calls me first and when hes going through anything Im the person he goes to. Now, I am in a relationship with a great guy but I cant stop thinking about HIM. Is this going to go on forever? Am i going to be getting married and thinking about him on my wedding day? This isnt fair to the guy Im with. I try to forget HIM but he always calls me at the strangest moments...like I was just thinking about him. He called me for advice about an ex he wants to get back with...and my heart dropped. SHould I ever tell him how I feel? I know I can and do love him more than anyone. Hes going to a rehab in Arizona for a yr..im gonna miss him , should I tell him anything? what should i do?
2006-10-26 04:32:33 · 4 answers · asked by Carly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because if love was easy, it wouldn't be something to be cherished...
2006-10-26 04:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jen-Jen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you have a boyfriend and you should respect him.If you want to be with your friend then first brake up with your boyfriend.But think about it twice, because maybe your boyfriend is worth gold and you will loose him and (I don't want to sound bad, but)you can loose your guy friend too because maybe he sees you just like a best friend.I tell you this because I am in similar situation, but I think that I will never leave my boyfriend because I know that this other guy that I love doesn't deserves me, and my boyfriend will do anything for me.Good luck and think twice!!!!!And for the question, why love is so complicated, I will tell you just that it is a part of life and life is never easy so we should just live for the present and do what makes us happy,so we will not regret later in life:)Cheer up!
2006-10-26 11:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta find your way, set boundaries, then it will not be so complicated.... good luck and stand your ground.
2006-10-26 11:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by dollface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like ya'll are best of friends....keep it that way
have sex with someone else...friendship is forever...sex will vary from time to time
2006-10-26 11:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋