just because your gods touch someone else's goods???? if someone's private touches someone else's private..that is cheating. but if their hands touch...or feet...or arms....why only the private parts. i dont get it...and my wife wants an explanation an i dont have one...please help.
2006-10-26 04:29:40 · 17 answers · asked by enema boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't believe anyone would let you touch them at all!
2006-10-27 12:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a big difference in people's feelings about touching.
Privates touching privates is very intimate - and I guess therefor seen as cheating.
Some people touch other people all the time, (but not in the private parts), just touchy-feely people. Others don't.
If they come together, they might get the feeling there's cheating because of touching other people, while it's just their a way of life...
But if you actually mean you touch someone elses private goods (than your wifes) I'd call it cheating...
2006-10-26 04:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Eyeline 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"cheating" is what you and your wife decide it is. Nobody else can decide that for you. Some people have no problem with their spouse "touching" other men or women, and it would drive some crazy. The two of you need to talk about it. The bottom line: if your wife doesn't like something you're doing, why would you keep doing it? You know it's going to hurt her feelings, so to continue to do it is deliberately hurting her. Even if you find it "innocent," she doesn't -- and she's your wife, her feelings should be important to you.
If you care about your wife and your relationship, then talk it out and stop doing things she doesn't like. If you can't do that, then maybe you need to end the relationship, 'cause you're just going to keep hurting her, and that will not be good...
2006-10-26 04:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating has has to do with more than just the contact of the privates. The privates gets focused on more because nobody "Accidentally" touches each other's privates, it is always done purposely. It mainly has to do with betraying someone's emotional bond. Inadvertent body contact isnot cheating because there is no intention behind it. Purpposely holding someone's hands to let them know you have interest is cheating because there are emotions behind it.
2006-10-26 04:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are with someone then you should never be close enough to another person to touch "private parts" much less even be naked with them. As for the hands, etc. you should know better than to play silly high school games with someone other than your spouse/significant other
2006-10-26 04:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you do something like kiss or touch a women it is so much more intament then simply getting some then leaving. Your feeling all over some one and imprinting the feeling of their body in your mind forever. Their taste, smell, etc. To touch is to want.
2006-10-26 05:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by dumbblond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop touching other people's private parts! Keep your hands to yourself.
2006-10-26 04:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't really know what you're asking here, but I believe that holding hands with someone else or kissing or any of that is wrong to do with someone else if you're married. You're putting yourself in a dangerous situation that could lead to more and destroy the marriage.
2006-10-26 04:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
touching as in foreplay? foreplay is considering as cheating and if you don't understand where your wife is coming from then you have bigger issues dude. did you do this touching to someone else?
2006-10-26 04:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is cheating - you know when you're doing something wrong. Let your conscience be your guide.
2006-10-26 04:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by OohLaLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋