2006-10-26 04:25:16 · 15 answers · asked by jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't - you just can ask him to trust you.
And don't violate his trust.
Maybe you could introduce your bf to your male companions, so he sees what kind of relation you have with these guys. It may soothe his mind... (unless - of course - they flirt all the time)
2006-10-26 04:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Eyeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel in his shoes? The thing is neither of you can read each others mind, he doesnt know if they are just friends or if your cheating on him. At the same time if he had a lot of female friends you would think the same thing. He would be telling you that there just freinds but you still have a faint felling that something else is goin on. Point is women get along really well with men and men with women. Try to limit the amount of male friends you have and if possible introduce them to him in person, let them and your boyfriend know that he is the love of your life not your friends. In doing this you creat trust and respect from him. If there is anything he has done to harm you he will come out clean and ask for your forgiveness. Trust me it worked on me. In everything you do to yourself, reassess it as if he was doing it and see how he will feel. "Do onto others what you would want others to do onto you".
2006-10-26 11:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity is a clear sign of emotional immaturity. What needs doing in this case is dump him and find a man. This kind of behavior can lead to verbal, or worse, physical abuse. Sounds like a clear cut case of mama's boy. Find a man who is emotionally stable. That's your best bet. Lots of Luck. Just think: Starting over. The butterflies in your stomach, The wet palms, The nervous feeling. Doesn't that turn you on more than having to worry about babysitting? I've seen it before: If you continue ,it may lead to sick crap like you can't visit your mom because I can't see when you are not here... You decide now
2006-10-26 11:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jayme C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, Tell him to quit his worryin over the petty things or your gonna kick his as* to the curb and find someone else, Jealousy is such a crock of crap, some guys will let it ruin them as long as they get their way they dont care
2006-10-26 11:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to let your man KNOW that he's the only one for you. Then, if he still has problems, have him sit down with you and your other male friends and talk the whole thing out. Believe me, COMMUNICATION in the only way to make any relationship work. If he still has any issues, you may have to make a choice. Your man or your friends.
2006-10-26 11:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Laura the mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to feel secure in the fact that you are with him. If he can't feel this now and you guys are only dating then when you get married it could escalate into something else. When you say worrying, worry in what terms? Do you spend more time with your other male companions than with him? Do you seem to have more fun with them than you do with him? Do you seem more relaxed when you are with them versus being with your boyfriend? Ask yourself what the root of his worrying is, and see if you can help him overcome that.
hope this helps
2006-10-26 11:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you give him a reason to worry? if not he is just being a semi-normal insecure or paranoid person, alot of ppl are like this, its not that they necessarily dont trust you, its just that they dont think very highly of them selves & they have some issues w/security in themself, i would try to make sure he knows he is the only one for you, make him feel special & let him know wthout being too abrupt that they dont mean anything to you except for good friends
2006-10-26 11:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not going to happen. But if you are actually goijng out with them, having them come to your place or going to theirs and want to continue that just tell your boyfriend that you want an open relationship and are ok with him doing the same.
2006-10-26 11:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't because that's his problem
If you want to stay with this guy...you should continue to do whatever you're doing because once you change your life so he won't worry....he's controlling you....and no body is worth that.
I would rethink having this boyfriend.
2006-10-26 11:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reassure him that he is the only one for you and avoid making comments or discussing your "male companions" that might make him think otherwise.
2006-10-26 11:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋