...if the guy (or girl) didn't let us down in the first place we would not have to leave them! So we are not just hurt , but let down by them as well...so no - we don't get away scott free - do we???
2006-10-26 04:14:57 · 19 answers · asked by chandra 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It hurts more to be left because you feel so helpless. Nobody gets off scott free though.
2006-10-29 22:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think alot of times it's very hard to make the decision to call off a relationship and it can be just as painful to the person leaving. Not only are they usually sad about it also but they feel guilty as well for being the one to say it first.
2006-10-26 04:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another thing that hurts is when the relationship is over through no-one's fault. You don't dislike them ,they're a lovely person, but it can't work. Telling them that and hurting them always cuts me up. I'm getting tired of doing it, but it's either that or looking back in our 60's and wondering why we wasted our lives on a lie.
2006-10-26 04:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Dirty_Idea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We most definitely dont. My ex seems to think that way because I ended the relationship and wont go back. Sucks that he never once stops to think how badly he must have treated me for me to be able to walk away from someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Jerk.
2006-10-26 04:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Agreed. I dumped a really bitchy girl who everyone hated in camp. I just felt sorry for her so I went out for a while. Not only did I ruin my rep in camp (although bad rep is better then no rep) she made up fairy tales of her being pregnant and kept me edgy for the rest of camp. And I was the official guilty party cause I was the one who broke up.
2006-10-26 04:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi:
I know a breakup is hard but you will get over it ,and find someone to love again. Granted it's not easy. But it will happen. And even the one who left you will come to regret what he did to you. But that is life and his decision. Right now. Your in find & Get over him mode. So Hang in there kid, Remember that God's got that special man for you out there, Pray and ask him for guidance in finding him or ask him to being him to you.
Good luck and best wishes in finding him.
2006-10-26 09:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope. infact we r so hurt and let down like u said dats y we leave and the pain stays for quite a long time.
2006-10-26 04:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope and you always leave yourself open to the fact that you might come to regret the decision you made to leave and wonder if you could've stayed and worked things out.
2006-10-26 04:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break Ups are never easy and yes I agree both parties do get hurt. I might be leaving my bf and believe you me it is going to be more painful for me than it is for him.
2006-10-26 04:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by liongirl_40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋