We should all be meeting up at the wkn,my close female friend also being there (a group of us, we're all mates).Was it wise for me to invite a girl from work to join us or would my female friend perceive this as me moving on? (not sure if I should move on or wait. How long can you wait, this gone on for a few months now).
Not sure if anything would happen with the girl from work,we get on well, have similar interests, not known her for long though.
Read information below if not familiar with history with previous question I posted
2006-10-26 04:09:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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How long would she stay quiet on me? How long should I leave it for? Anything I should/not do? What
would she say when she gets back in touch? Will she get back in touch?
Anyone have previous experiences?
Thanks, I've never experienced this!
2006-10-26 04:09:22 · update #1
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Everything was fine the week before, we were in touch as usual (we usually txt each other everyday) and we're very close. She txt saying how she couldn't even touch another bloke when she went clubbing on Saturday. Said she didn't know what was going on with herself. When I asked her to meet up this evening for a quick drink she said no. Then she said she wasn't sure when we'd meet again and that she'll get in touch. I asked what the matter was, she told me that she's got a lot on her mind and don’t want me to contact her. We didn't argue or fall out over anything.
What’s going on with her? This has really surprised me!
2006-10-26 04:09:36 · update #2
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P.s. thought this might help. We have kissed once, but she decided just to remain friends (I respected her decision and we've remained close friends). Everytime I mention a girl that I'm interested in she changes the subject straight away and does not seem comfortable with me telling her who I'm interested in (no dirty/sexual info). Also she always tells me that she’s not after any other blokes or that she didn’t pull anyone when she goes out. She's told me that the problem is NOT about another bloke-she’s made that quite clear to me. I'm male. Couldn't touch a bloke e.g. didnt want to chat anyone up/find anyone attractive/good enough (she's not gay-(trust me) from our conversations.
I still have feelings for her-not sure if she knows this though...
She has got bck in touch saying she is fine, but not sure for how long.
2006-10-26 04:10:14 · update #3
you've over-complicated the issue in sooo many ways!!
i know you asked girls to advise but man!! just chill & have a good time. don't ask either one of them out this time tho!
you'll be fine.
ask one: she either will or she won't
then ask the other one: she too either will or she won't...
statistics for success will get better with each effort you make
2006-10-26 04:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're justified in your feelings that it's "not fair" to the other girls and you're completely right that the other girls might get mad, but like you said, in the end it's his choice. As a good friend of his feel free to point this out, both to the soon to be goom and to the girl. Point out to both of them that by her attendance at the party it may create some bad blood between her and the other girls, and your friend and the girls. And some people (girls especially) can hold wicked grudges for years to come over things sillier than this. If your friend still wants this girl there, and the girl still wants to come, then so be it. You said your piece and it's his bachelor party. But don't abstain from doing the things you'd do if the girl wasnt there. If you want to get rowdy, drunk, and chase other girls - go for it. If she knows your friend well enough to be invited she should know what she's in for.
2016-05-21 22:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that she has changed her mind about being just friends, but asking her if she wanted to start a relationship might ruin whatever friendship you have now.
As for your current question, you could ask your friend if she would mind you bringing another friend along. She will probably say 'of course not' and that would give you an opportunity to say something like "well i didn't know if you wanted it to be just us."
2006-10-26 04:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that she have been hurt in the past and she is afraid you should give her a little more time and if you invite the other girl out make her know where you stand because you do not want another person getting hurt
2006-10-26 07:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello again!!yes i would invite her out because this shows that you are moving on from your female friend even if you havent!!she will then start to feel slightly jealous and tell you how she feels!!thats if she does have feelings for you..so yes invite the girl out from work and even flirt with her a little bit..not to be horrible but to see if you get a reaction..good luck honey!!x
2006-10-26 04:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking so much, enjoy the weekend. As long as you aren't doing something to maliciously hurt, or being completely thoughtless, you're ok. Enjoy. Let your friend play whatever games she wishes.
2006-10-26 04:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by Dirty_Idea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the girl you like is on her own go up to her be your normal self and ask her out not tell any one that you are going to if she said no nobody knows if said yes then its up to you to tell people if she want to as well GOOD LUCK
2006-10-26 04:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she may have issues or be seeing someone else and brushed you off. Be her Friend and go on with your life.
2006-10-26 04:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by MIA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be trouble, depends on how much girl no 1 likes/fancies you, if you are testing her it could have dongerous effects , we wimmin can be strange creatures!.....
2006-10-26 04:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah, go for the threesome angle and get those dirty biatches on the bed.
2006-10-26 04:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by hnnfrd_jms 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋