but maybe just one of your friends say stay the course!
2006-10-26 04:04:35 · 14 answers · asked by Jujeaux 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ha ha. War terms. I love it.
If the relationship was going nowhere, I'd cut and run. What's the point of staying the course when you're not helping anyone, including (especially) yourself? Instead of wasting time with this person, find one worthy of your time. (This goes for you, too, George . . . )
2006-10-26 05:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you listening to your friends? They have nothing to do with your relationship. Why do you feel your relationship is so-so? Or is that your feelings about the person you're in a relationship with is so-so? That is what should determine your decision. If the relationship is boring, you can always spice it up. So I would say to stay the course. If you no longer have strong feelings for this person, I think it might be best to move on- otherwise, you're just wasting time for you both. If you've only been together a short while and things don't seem to be going anywhere, it's probably because it's not going to- again, might as well move on.
2006-10-26 04:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I did what my friends said my whole life, I would either be dead, or in prison. Do what your heart tells you. Don't stay in a relationship that you know will not work, it will only be bad for both sides, especially if the other person thinks everything is GREAT. The sooner the better, IF you think it is not going to last. If you see potential, then stay the coarse. Remember... what you see now, is what you get. Don't think you can change a man eventually. I am a man, and that is very hard to do (change a man). If he has qualities that you like NOW, then stay with him. If he requires lots of fine tuning, then cut it now.
2006-10-26 04:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really up to you and how you feel about the relationship. Are you happy with the relationship as it is, or do you want, and, or expect more in a relationship? If it's what you want, then stay; but if you're looking for more, and can't get it from your current relationship, then it's time to move on. Only you, and not your friends, can answer these questions. Good luck!
2006-10-26 04:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be up to your friends. When it comes to relationships, only the 2 people involved really know what goes on. You need to make that decision on your own. If it is just so-so and you're not really happy with him, why stay? It's better to be alone than to be in a bad relationship.
2006-10-26 04:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decrease him off, it is maximum suitable for each individual. you already comprehend you do no longer want to be with him to any extent further and that staying in touch on an identical time as buddies may be too complicated. i think of you basically want some reassurance which you're doing the wonderful element. of direction it is going to likely be terrible for a on an identical time as yet a minimum of you will comprehend you're doing the wonderful element and you are able to grant up feeling responsible. it may take time yet you will recover from him and you will locate somebody else who will handle you greater suitable.
2016-10-16 10:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the course is only when you can see positive changes being made now.
Cut & Run is when you're hoping you will one day see changes.
Unless you're married....you don't owe anybody anything so when in doubt cut & run.
2006-10-26 04:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel? Talk to the person and tell them how you feel. They may have more feelings for you than you think...or less. Maybe you can both mutually come to a commitment either being in this relationship together making it work or being friends.
2006-10-26 04:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by MIA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been staying the course for the past few years. Both too stubborn to start over--and I am petrified of leaving what is miserable yet comfortable
2006-10-26 04:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no black or white in relationships...give it a time and see if it is worth the CUT and run
2006-10-26 04:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by HopeH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋