Is this something worth confronting, or just turn away and play dumb? PLEASE HELP!!!! advice needed bad
2006-10-26 04:02:31 · 19 answers · asked by andre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this isn't your business, but I think it would be wise to tell her. She doesn't need to be fooled and played around on anymore than she already is. If she finds out that you knew she will hate you as well. Whatever she wants to believe is up to her, but you let her know that your only telling her because you love her as a sister. Also let her know that you have nothing to lie about. She needs to know this type of info especially when her mother and sister are involved. She's going to find out one way or the other. Be there for her because she's going to need support when this is all over with.
2006-10-26 04:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your sister but do it subtly. Tell her that you are doing it because you love and care for her and that you only want the best for her. Then come out with the truth. If you want to play things on the safe side. Call a meeting with all of them there. And say that you found out something that is very disturbing and you are upset about it. Tell them what you saw and let them sort out their issues. You just have to be the ref tho. Best of luck amigo.
2006-10-26 04:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree that she must be told. There is something seriously wrong with those people. I would not want to be in your shoes either. Try to be gentle when and if you do decide to tell. Best of luck.
Oh, by the way, it seriously sounds like a Jerry Springer show.
2006-10-26 04:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister in law--as in you are married to her sister/brother?? Geez....I hope the sister wasn't your wife you caught in bed with him. This is just too confusing...but thanks for the 2 points. But a word of advice...this is not your place to tell. The sister-in-law will never forgive you for the betrayal.
2006-10-26 04:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront them and tell them to go to the nearest mental hospital and check themselves in for God's sake.
2006-10-26 04:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you must tell her, however I am so glad that I'm not in your shoes. The 3 of them are sick.
2006-10-26 04:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds cruel but she deserves to know. She will heal within quicker now than later!
2006-10-26 04:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by marie1257 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd play dumb
2006-10-26 04:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so you found your mother in law and your wife in bed with your wifes sisters boyfriend? i would join in
2006-10-26 04:11:54 · answer #9 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
play dumb
2006-10-26 04:05:31 · answer #10 · answered by mongo862001 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋