I told a guy i have feelings for him...and he rejected me...and now part of me feels angry at him and the other part wants him even more...we still talk...is there a chance that he might grow to like me? is there anything i can do to make him like me? i want him to like me...but i dun want to try too hard...coz it'd make me look desperate...wat should i do?
2006-10-26 03:37:03 · 16 answers · asked by Forever happy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make someone like you. They either do or don't.
Cherish the friendship, and find another love interest. If it's meant to be, one day it will be. In the meantime, enjoy what you have, and continue looking for love as if this weren't an issue.
2006-10-26 03:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more u keep on hoping he will like u the more u make urself believe that n it turns out to be an addiction. Believe me its easier to get over him now than when he has rejected u so many times until u get used to the idea. Anyway u are not alone we all have been there, be strong n try to take ur mind off him.
2006-10-26 10:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by reeney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since u had told him that u like him, there's possibilities that he might like u in the future.. it's logical for a person to like someone who like that someone back..
a good example would be.. but you have to see this in this perspective..
you'll never like a person that hates you.. so that principals apply to the opposite emotion "LIKE".. you will like a person who likes you..
so I've covered the first part of your question.. the next is what u can do to make him like u without trying too hard.. for now I think u should just act cool about it.. just befriending him.. and who knows probably he'll see a quality of u that he likes..
Dont put too much hope cause u'll fall into deeep depression.. Just go out and chills a lot.. I suggest you go out and find mentor/books on how to be more attractive to guys and/or u might even date a better guy than him.. and remember U can NEVER change someone's feelings ONLY he/she can change his/her own feelings.
2006-10-26 11:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Johny B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take this the wrong way, but if u got turned on by the fact that he rejected u then ur gonna be a freak in the sheets.
anyways, it is possible for him to like u but not know how to say it. so if u really do want him, then use his friends and other huys to make him jealous. flirt w/ all the guys infront him and when u know hes gonna be watching. guys hate it when they like u and u go for someone else. that will make him step up and ask u out. plus guys dont want u untill someone else has u. trust me it works everytime.
GOOD LUCK GRL, GO GET UR GUY!!!!!!!
2006-10-26 10:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off but be yourself. Continue a friendship with him, if its not to hard but you cant make somebody like you. In time, you never know he might become interested the more he gets to know you, but trying hard and coming on strong will only push him away more.
So you are going to have to make yourself realize that it might never be and be ok with that. Otherwise, I dont think that you could or should even have a friendship with him because not only would it be hard on you, you might start to annoy him.
2006-10-26 10:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Why would you want to spend all your time trying to win him over when he doesnt want to be with you? The part of you that wants him "even more" is the part of you that likes the challenge. You already asked and he didnt return your feelings. Find someone who really wants to be with you.
2006-10-26 10:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by AGNY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that you should'nt be on his Sh*t. Guys like it when girls arent all over them. When he sees taht you pay no attention to him (even though this may kill you inside) they will miss all the attention and would wonder why aren't you interested anymore, and thats where he will come back. Unless (rarely happens) he totally forgets you and you dont speak to him again, which in that case it meant that he really wasnt worth your time. Good Luck Girly!
2006-10-26 10:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't wait around for him to change his mind. I appears that he made himself pretty clear. Move on...find someone else. If he ever comes around it will be when he sees you with another guy. Who knows, maybe you will have the opportunity to reject him someday!!
2006-10-26 10:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
him rejecting you makes you want him more. its natural. if he rejected you he may like you if time grows but at the moment it doesnt seem like it. just hang out with him friendly like and see how it goes.
2006-10-26 10:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when we don't like people, those feelings remain that way. don't give him more opportunities to reject you. it is hard but try to move on. a spectacular guy worth your time is out there :)
2006-10-26 10:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋