My Partner and I have been trying to have a baby now for just over a year and have had no success. I have tried everything I can think of, standing on my head, taking my tempriture, eating spinich, taking folic acid and I've even giving up for 6 months and still nothing. Is there anyone out there with some useful tips? I need anything that would and has worked for anyone else. I never thought that I would be one of these people who you see in movies that can't concieve, but obviously I am. We have both been tested and the Dr's gave us the OK. I just don't know why this is happening to me. Please someone help me!!!
2006-10-26 03:28:03 · 12 answers · asked by rach 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
baby why on earth do u think u can't concieve,since the doc confirmed that both of u are okay just cool down u know our system works with our mood.try ur best and think less about it [although i know it is difficult]relax enjoy ur loving making and mostly especially be optimistic and always sings a song of thank giving believing all is well .cool down i know dat it will work.
good luck
2006-10-26 03:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by atola o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just defy medical logic when it comes to getting pregnant, while others just get close to a guy a boom they are pregnant.
You may want to go and see a specialist and get examined again.
No one here can tell you why you aren't getting pregnant, only a doctor can do that, and even they may not be able to tell you.
You have to relax and just keep trying and it may or may not happen for you. I know that it is not the answer that you are looking for, but sadly sometimes it just doesn't happen.
Remember there is always adoption which I think is even more special then giving birth. You get to choose your child and the child is so grateful to you for giving them a second chance at having a good life.
2006-10-26 03:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've seen a lot of this with all of my cousins. But a few of them had trouble at first Because they were on birth control for years, so it took them about 2 years I think to get pregnant, but then they ended up with 4 kids each, all boys!. Also, one of my cousins tried everything too, and as soon as she was about to get artificially inseminated, she found out she was pregnant. It takes a while for the birth control to get all the way out of your system; ask your doctor if he can give u some kind of pill to move it along; they have something I just can remember exactly what it is. Good Luck! But remember once u get going, sometimes u can't stop. I'll talk to my cousins and ask them what they did, and if it's anything I think might help you in your situation, I'll let u know. Just don't stress out about it. Let it come naturally.
2006-10-26 03:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lacey Gold 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is such thing as having too much or too little sex when trying to get pregnant. You should be having sex every 1-2 days - no more, no less.
Rather than standing on your head, try placing a pillow under your hips to keep them elevated, and keep the semen from spilling out.
Gross as it sounds, you could also try using a turkey baster to make sure that his little swimmers are actually reaching your cervix. I'm not sure if this would actually work or not - it's just a thought.
2006-10-26 03:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by xxunloved_little_angelxx 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok to you this might seem nothing but superstitious but its happened to alot of people i know. stop stressing and trying so hard. what i mean is that you stressing yourself and trying so hard to fall pregnant but you wont so rather try not to think about it, you and your partner so go on holiday or something and relax and dont concentrate on falling pregnant or dont think about it at all... chances are you will fall pregnant when you least expect it and haven't been thinking about it.
you might not believe me but give it a go and see what happens. haven't you heard that people who want babies struggle and those that dont plan on it usually end up pregnant. so relax and take time off for just you and your partner.
2006-10-26 03:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy_German 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married???? If you aren't married, maybe this is God's way of telling you to do the right thing and get married first. Kid's do so much better in a family when the parents are married. And then make love as husband and wife. Maybe that will work for you.
It is not that hard to get pregnant. It took my husband and I 1 month to get pregnant with our son who is now 3 and I was on the pill and got pregnant ( almost 7 months along) with our 2nd son. Just get married and chill out! And it will happen. If it doesn't then it wasn't in God's plan for you. Some women aren't meant to to be mothers. And some like me are blessed to be mom's!
2006-10-26 03:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
according to me, it happens some time just b'coz of unawereness of doing sex. sometimes man's sperm comes out very-very late till the time women's ovum get fall. this will happen by doing so many other things before fcuking like, sucking, smotches, boobs sucking etc. just by these activities the women's ovum get out of the virgina.so there is no contact between sperm and ovum. my advice for u that focus on ur main motive of doing sex rather then enjoyng alot.
wish u a happy married life life. and a ute baby will come to u soon.
2006-10-26 04:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by harpreet0485 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In parents magazine they said cough syrup works because like in your chest it loosens the mucus and open a passage way. Well it also does that for your vagina, helping the flow of sperm to your canal. Also make sure your missionary.
2006-10-26 03:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by TARALYN B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have both been tested then you just now need to wait. it took my fiance and I 2 1/2 YEARS to get pregnant!! Patience and LOW stress is KEY good luck!!!!
2006-10-26 03:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by HH72 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you keeping track of when you're ovulating. Thats what matters. But an ovulation kit at the store. It worked for my wife and I.
2006-10-26 03:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋