Well im in uni and i met this girl, we have been the best of friends for some time is it wise to ask her out?
2006-10-26 03:15:50 · 16 answers · asked by Luke 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends how close you are. the warning sign that says you are only friends and nothing will happen, is if she starts talking bout other guys to you. if this hasnt happenned yet, what are you waiting for? ask her out!
2006-10-26 03:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely definitely ask her out! That's what I did and it was the best decision I could have made!
Faint heart never won fair lady.
If she says no, at least the ball is in her court.
If you must pursue, do so because you enjoy her company and try not to get all neurotic about it.
Persevere, you won't regret it, thats a certainty. Best of luck.
2006-10-26 10:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude i feel what your saying no joke the girl im with right now used to be my best freind we knwew each other for a pretty long time then we lost contact for almost 6 months she came back in my life we hung out for a little id like give her back massages grab her hand and just hold it. then one day i asked her and all she said was kiss me and i did she told me her heart skipped a beat and now where both happier then ever. but i you case you should try to get closer she how she acts if shes giving you mixed signals take it slow but if i was you i would just ask her out tell her hey i dont want to ruin our freindship but do you wanna go out on a date sometime.that what i would do and good luck bro i wish you the best peace
2006-10-26 10:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Davey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, if you keen on her i guess you should speak up. She is a very good friend you say, so if she is not interested in a relationship she will say so and remain friends with you. Try ask what she thinks about dating a good friend or something on the line of that. Good luck;)
2006-10-26 10:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by Motti _Shish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Why not? I don't see anything bad coming out of this as long as you stay out of trouble by keeping your pants on. Lol. Maybe she feels the same way about you. So there's one way to find out. Be open with her. Say what you feel. See what she has to say about it. Good luck. Have fun.
2006-10-26 10:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! Most great relationships began as great friendships. It's the best foundation for one. She's probably feeling the same way about you.
2006-10-26 10:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should actually ask yourself, if dating doesn't work out, I'm I willing to loose a good friend?" Things will get weird if you do start dating and it doesn't work out. What's important to you.
2006-10-26 10:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldnt ask her out immediately you should talk to her about the situation first and get her opinion about it and see how she feels and the last thing you wanna do is act to fast and have the possibility of never talking to her again.
2006-10-26 10:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by medical student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and watch first whether she has any intimate feelings for u or not.If anytime u felt like that she is also serious then go ahead
2006-10-26 10:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ishh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juz tell her that u like her.. if she says that she like u then u r a lucky boy but if she doesn't, tell her that u still wanna stay frens with her and ask her 2 4get bout everything u say... maybe after a longer time, she'll think bout what u said and maybe juz maybe she'll hook up with u...GOOD LUCK newayz... =)...
2006-10-26 10:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋