I met somebody online several months ago. Me and her hit it off and we were talking every day. Sometimes we talked until the next morning. Our feelings grew for each other. We sent pictures, did the web cam, and videos. We met on YouTube where we both make videos. Okay so we got to the point of saying we loved each other. Well all was going well. At the beginning of October I went on a business trip. During tha trip I found out my 14 year old dog was dying. I was upset and wasn't acting myself. She sensed something and I explained to her what was going on. That night I didn't get to talk to her because she was doing something. I needed somebody to talk to so I just kept trying to get in touch. Well after that she has pulled away from me. For the last 3 weeks she has drifted further and further away. Now she doesn't talk much and says she doesn't know how she feels about me anymore. My question is, is this even worth it? We never met yet! Can this be saved you think? What to do?
2006-10-26 03:06:26 · 14 answers · asked by Ni7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's possible the relationship was too intense, and was heading for a slow down anyway.
and maybe she's a cat person.
you blew it, doglover!
2006-10-26 03:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online romances are at best, risky. I think it is safe to say that she was scared by your need to talk to her. Most women know that men are well, not emotionally endowed, shall we say. Maybe it scared her. Maybe she found a real live man, and not some cyber date. It really does make a difference. Hugging a man is a whole lot nicer than trying to hug a computer monitor. Try again with singles dances, cruises, etc...and meet a real live huggable lady. GL
2006-10-26 10:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have not even met yet in person I would say this is too much drama to continue. If she were really interested she would be completely accessible and if you feel her pulling away -- well, let it go.
2006-10-26 10:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahh... Just one of those common problems people get from formulating cyber relationships... Why don't you look for someone who is just a few blocks (or maybe a few miles) away from you? That should make things a whole lot better. Remember, there is always pain in distance-torn relationships, especially yours.
2006-10-26 10:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by Grifter Heavenspike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have never actually expierenced that sort of thing but what i would say is that if you guys were supposively in love then you wouldnt have this problem... and obviously she doesnt even care about you or she would show a little consideration... but i dont want to like make you mad at me or make you stop talking to her so yea
2006-10-26 10:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by medical student 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those people arent meant for relationships. Those types of people are looking for a Mr Right who can do no wrong and the minute something goes wrong they abandon them and start looking for another Mr Right illusion. Trust me man its hopeless unless she changes her tune and apologizes.
2006-10-26 10:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should meet in person- that is the only real way to know love.
dont worry about the loss of a woman you never really had. chalk it up as experience and move on!
2006-10-26 10:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by tbaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an internet relationship she may have found another to internet love, move on and let bygones be gone....
2006-10-26 10:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm...she probably doesn't know how to react anymore...She obviously doesn't really want to talk to you...so I would just forget about it and move on!
2006-10-26 10:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by Brittni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me think? she is already pulling away and you haven't even met yet. I would let that one go
2006-10-26 10:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋