I really need someone to talk to right now, My friends aren't around, My boyfriend is mad at me. And I feel like my entire life has been drained out of me, I have no emotion. I have no feeling right now, It's just, Nothing. I had an argument with my boyfriend this morning,Over nothing, I just didnt really want to talk this morning, I didnt have much to say. I was tired, and i just felt empty, and it seems like he got mad at me. Now hes upset, and he wrote me a letter saying *Im done with this, I cant deal with this* I love him, and he calls me abusive, I just pulled him to the side and said whats the matter with you?? And everything went downhill, I feel so cold and depressed right now, No emotion, Nothing. Im 2,000 or 24,000 Kilometers away from my family, And i feel so alone right now, Does anyone have an answer? This sometimes happens. Im sorry If im bothering anyone, Im thinking about suicide, and it hurts me to think that I just want to end my life I dont want people to suffer hlp
2006-10-26 02:47:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Also, I went to a doctor about this before. And he wont prescribe me something to help, and ive already tried councelling.
2006-10-26 02:58:59 · update #1
It's called depression and it's easy treated with a prescription. Call your doctor!
2006-10-26 02:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by kc_warpaint 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweet person, why don't you stop what you are doing right now, and call for an appointment with a doctor. If you do not have health insurance then go to a public health department, those folks will always help you. Now it sounds to me as if you may have a mild case of depression, or some type of chemical imbalance. If you do without realizing it, you very well could be abusing him in some form or another. If you are verbally abusing him, then you certainly need to get on some type of anti-depressant to balance you out. This man can not continue to live with these outbursts from you. However, you did not say what his temperament is like, does he by any way prompt you to conduct yourself in this manner? Please know you are not bothering anyone, and you are not alone out there in this big world. I'm going to speak for everyone on this page, we care about you............ and want you to have the very best that life has to offer. Now put the thought of suicide out of your mind, you have a lot of living to do yet. One more thing, you might consider taking a short vacation, and going home to visit your family for about a week, and let your Mom hold you in her arms. That always works for me.
Hugs to you,
Texas girl
2006-10-26 10:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, know what the feeling is like and still not much better but listen to KC Warpai.. There's some great meds on the shelf these days so see a doctor I've answered a lot of questions about emptiness or the feelings of being lost and most times when counseling fails then meds do help.
2006-10-26 10:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has depressive episodes in their lives. The trick is getting through them. You say your family is far away, but in reality they are as close as your phone. Give em a call. And don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself. Go see a movie. Go shopping. I know that always make women feel better. Go get your hair done. Get a manicure. Get a pedicure. Get a dog. Or a hamster. A pet's probably better than one of us lousy men anyway. You still have to clean up after them, but at least they don't talk back. And they smell better. Read a book. Read a magazine. Go to the park. Do you get what I'm saying here? There's too many good things in life to sit around and mope about one guy. At last count, there's about 3,000,000,001 men in the world. Go out and find that one.
2006-10-26 10:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Knowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, this emptiness is not uncommon. I work a full time job, take 4 classes in college, and have a stepdaughter. Sometimes I get so stressed I want to go crazy. I begin to feel empty because all of the emotion I actually have inside. I get so pissed about things and have no time or way to vent my emotions. When I continue in that pattern eventually I just become emotionless. I can argue with people, my husband included, well they can argue, and I just sit there unable to be angry....or sad....or bothered at all. My advice for you is try to figure out what in your life you can drop that is causing this lack of emotion for you, if it's your boyfriend, so what! There will be another, maybe even one that makes you feel GOOD about yourself. If it's work or school or w/e you do, you have to find a better way to deal with it. Or just find a way to vent when you're pissed....throw your cell phone, go to the batting cages, whatever it takes!
2006-10-26 10:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by Cynthia S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I GET THE SAME WAY AT TIMES
I THINK IT IS MORE A CHEMICAL PROMBLEM THAN A TURE EMOTIONAL THING
I LOOK AT MY LIFE AND I SEE THERE ARE SO MANY MORE GOOD THINGS THAN BAD
JUST LET HIM COOL OFF
AND GO DO SOMETHING FUN
MAYBE THE GUY ISNT RIGHT FOR YOU
I WAS DEPRESSED WITH A RELATIONSHIP I WAS IN
IT WAS NOT WORKING OUT
I LIVE ALONE AND HAVE NO FAMILY FOR THOUSANDS OF MILES
I WALKED OUTSIDE ONE NIGHT AND FROM WHERE I LIVE I CAN SEE THE ENTIRE CITY
IT WAS SPARKLING WITH GAZILLIONS OF LIGHTS
I REALIZED THAT THERE ARE NEARLY A MILLION PEOPLE LIVING HERE
KNOW WHAT ? HALF OF THEM ARE WOMEN
I SMILED AND THOUGHT...WHY AM I BOTHERING WITH A RELATIONSHIP THAT DEPRESSES ME WHEN THERE ARE SO MANY WONDERFUL PEOPLE OUT THERE THAT WOULD LOVE TO BE WITH A GUY THAT CARES AND IS ASA NICE AS I AM
I MOVED ON AND IN NO TIME I HAD SEVERAL FRIENDS THAT I NEVER HAD BEFORE
NOW SHE IS STILL MISERABLE AND I AM NOT
OH I STILL HAVE MOMENTS OF DEPRESSION BUT I SEE THEM COMING AND I TRY TO IGNORE THEM
FRIENDS BABY
FRIENDS
THAT'S WHAT MAKES EVERYTHING SEEM BETTER
WE ALL NEED SOMEONE TO SHARE WITH AND LEAN ON SOMETIMES
SMILE
TAKE A SHOWER
GET FOXIED UP AND GO OUT AND HAVE SOME FUN TODAY
LIFE IS ALL HOW YOU SEE IT
LOOK FOR THE GOOD
AND KEEP UP THE HEART
PEOPLE LOVE YOU
2006-10-26 10:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by John K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't hurt yourself. I understand where you are and I've been there. In fact I lived in depression for years. I found that the source of my depression was trying to be what everyone wanted me to be and ignoring who I was. For a moment, try to think about what it is that you want out of life. What are your likes? Dislikes? I spent so much time trying to please evryone else that I forgot to please myself. I didn't truly know myself until I was 35 years old. Don't wait to find the real "you". Make yourself happy, put yourself first for a while and see how things change. It's not selfish. When you find yourself, you will find contentment. You will realize that you will are important and worth all the things that you search for. Pretty soon, people will start trying to please you. Not knowing and loving yourself will keep you in a cycle of depression and can only end badly. I tried so many times to end my life and I am so happy that I failed. I have become confident, and happy with who I am. If you truly try what I am advising, you will never feel completely alone. You will always have the love for yourself. Praying for you!
2006-10-26 10:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Katlyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet, the world is not coming to an end even if it feels like it. You know what, there is one man who cares so much and is ever ready to chat with you. He is called Jesus. Talk to him right now, there is no laid down rules or methods on how to chat with him, just begin to talk cos he's right beside you. No one, I repeat no one is worth dying over. You are beatifully and wonderfully made,He gave heaven's best for you, the world has only one unique U, we can't afford to miss you, always tell yourself that who ever is priviledged to have you as a friend is blessed.
Hey girl, refuse to be depressed, go out and give yourself a treat for IT IS WELL!
I really wish I could chat but i dont know how to on Yahoo answers, in fact I doubt if it's allowed. However, get yourself together, talk to your guy when you are in control but please whatever you do Dont GROVEL!.
2006-10-26 10:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by lass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, it sounds like you a young lady. I want to tell you that we have all been there, I just turned 35 yesterday and have had lots of problems like that. they will pass just work on them and hang in there. As far as suicide is concerned, my sister committed suicide and it was the most devastating thing a family can go through. my mother was never the same again, not to mention the child she left behind, it is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I hope your situation improves. Maybe this relationship just isn't right for you, you may love him but that isn't always enough.
2006-10-26 09:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by jomamma2399 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on, please please don't think like this. We all have our ups and down. Let him be upset about NOTHING. He is the one who should be there comforting you since your family is so far away. Just sit at home and pray and tell God how you feel. He always listen and trust me he does. I'm a stay at home home and there are times that I just want to run and never come back. But I just say it b/c I'm so tired and overwelmed. Just have some time to your self and you will se how more relaxed you are. Chill out and enjoy your day and please once again I begg you not to think that way about yourself. You are special and you have a whole life ahead of you. I know once you are doen with school, since thats the only thing I can think you are away from your family. Once your done with school, you will be back with your family and they will be so proud of you. God bless you!
2006-10-26 10:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel better now that you have vented? You have to get off the "pity-pot." Self pity only sucks the life out of you--and no one wants to be around anyone who feels that way all the time. So pull yourself up! Let him go. If it is meant to be later--once you've gotten your act together, great. But you need to focus on getting your life together. Not for him, not for your family.....for you. Get to a doctor, ASAP.
Until you can be seen--call here--it's for young people:
In the UK: http://www.childline.org.uk/
or in the US: http://suicidehotlines.com/
2006-10-26 10:01:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋