I asked this girl at work (who is stunning,but quite shy) out nxt Saturday with my friends and she said YES!!!
Would she look at this as a date or just going out with a work colleague?
p.s. I said with friends, as I was worried that she would say no. What if my friends can't make it?
Advice appreciated
(I'm leaving nxt week and she knows this)
2006-10-26 02:35:09 · 17 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do fancy her a bit, don't really know her that well yet.
How would you girls perceive it?
2006-10-26 02:40:29 · update #1
Am just curious how she perceives it, I see it as two ppl getting to know each other, outside of work.
2006-10-26 02:44:42 · update #2
Depends how well you know her, and if there's a bit of a spark between you. My advice is go out and have a good time, see what happens. Don't expect it to be a date, and don't expect her to see it as a date either. If it goes well, then invite her on a "proper" date, with just the two of you. Make it a bit more obvious that it's a real date, and you'll soon see if she's interested.
In short, this first 'date' can serve as a good starting point for a real date later on. Getting to know eachother outside of work etc.
2006-10-26 02:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference is each persons individual perception of what they expect to occur on the 'date'. Chances are she accepted expecting it to be a date. If you could state the exact words you used when asking her, it would be helpful. Your leaving next weekend would not alter her perception. Be prepared to treat it like a date, but be willing to accept it as just friends hanging out.
2006-10-26 09:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by kari w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference is about what your intentions are. If you like her want her etc then really you should let her know. Otherwise just see how it goes on a friendship vibe first, its a good get out clause if things go pear shaped....plus I think too often we forget about creating friendships...everything with men and women is about sex these days..why don't we ask each out for lunch or drinks just to get to know each other more?
2006-10-26 09:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by JULIE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date gives u some limited access to the cookie jar, whereas a friend date is just a handshake
2006-10-26 10:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends - as a night out. Just you and her = a date.
2006-10-26 09:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Felidae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd look on it as a casual date if I were her. If your friends can't make it, tell her it'll be just the two of you and if that's okay with her. That way no surprises or misunderstanding. Have fun.
2006-10-26 09:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows what you want is a date, but this to her might just be a night out.
2006-10-26 09:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she knows is a date but you should tell her maybe your friend cant make it tell her the truth..and the difference of going on a date or going out with your friend is that if you go out on a date you will kiss her and when you go out with a frien you guys are just you know chilling...
2006-10-26 09:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id kinda take it as a date! You could always tell her that somethings come up and your mates cant make it and would she still be up for heading out with just you - I so guarantee she will! xx
2006-10-26 09:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would take that as being a 'safe date', a sort of pre date to c if you will get on. if u want to date seriously then go ahead and ask...
2006-10-26 09:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋