to cut a very long story short, she knows my feelings, we have discussed it and she is totally cool with it, we laugh and joke and act like kids sometimes and she says i make her feel very special but we work together and now she is living in my house, separate rooms, which is great and im giving her as much space as i can..... she didnt ask me to. Her friendship is very very important to me but i would like in the future for us to be romantically involved. I think about her every spare minute of the day. im not needy or anything like that, im calm and confident and live life. We have kissed once but she has not long broken up from a LT relationship and im there for her. she is a great person. How do you think this will develop???
2006-10-26 02:20:36 · 18 answers · asked by Tipster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to talk to her about your feelings and see if she feels the same. If not, then you can at least sleep better at night. If so, take things slow and enjoy! Good Luck.
2006-10-26 02:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say how this will end up. It depends on how much healing she's done since the ending of her LT relationship. If you move too quickly, you'll be the rebound guy - and you don't want that. If you move too slowly, she'll slip away from you. I suggest keeping the idea of you and her as a couple out in the open, and let her know that as soon as she's ready to move forward, so are you. good luck.
2006-10-26 09:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends can become lovers but if you leave it too long she may turn you down on the grounds that she does not want to lose you as a friend. Also, as you have seen her at her worst (just out of a relationship) the bad feelings about that could be transferred on to you.
You need to tell her how you feel about her, that you are willing to wait and take it slow with no pressure but also explain why
2006-10-30 05:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is living with you?
Statistics will tell you people who live together are less likely to marry, then those who dont live together.Goggle it-
This whole story rubs me the wrong way- Does she like you, or are you free rent?
You are very vulnerable, and prime for the taking- if shes that kinda gal.
I just think, simply stated, your putting the cart before the horse.
Gals like a bit of challenge, and chase too, sounds like you are there signed sealed, delivered,
no reason to lick.
2006-10-26 09:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by cottoneyejoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. This will show her that you are there for her. Tell her how you feel, but also let her know that you are willing to be patient while she gets over her past relationship. If nothing else, you will have a good friend. But my guess is she will respect you AND want you as a partner.
2006-10-26 09:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on her if she will forgot her exbf because of you.
My husband and me are friends before, I just came form LT relationship and I met him abroad. At first I dont love him, but time come our friendship develop into love and now we are married.
The point is whatever decision she will have for you, you need to respect it, but at least tell her your feelings when you feel that shes ready.
2006-10-26 09:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married 27 yrs here be careful shes not on a rebound and your the sucker that's going to get there heart broken is she a cure gal if so shes gonna be looking soon and u will be left with he nice guy whom let her stay while she was retrieving dont get hurt seems to me if u 2 really had it for EACH other you would have done alot more then just kiss come on hun dont b fooled
2006-10-26 09:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in love honey, it is a great thing what you are doing for her and that will develop into a great friends meaning trust and that will develop into deeper feelings ( love) and that will blossum into a longtime relationship. So good luck
2006-10-26 09:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ginger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like as if she's using you. Why would you want to be with a two-timer who isn't ready to leave her bf for you. She is the winner in this game as she is enjoying her space as well as enjoying your company so that fits very well in her schedule.
Its up to you but remember, what goes around, comes around.
2006-10-26 09:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are playing this just right. True love is sure to come of it if you just continue to give her the space she needs to get her head together after her break up. Good Man!
2006-10-26 09:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋