ok well i like this guy who i've been really good friends with for about 2 years.. i talk to him almost everyday on the phone and on msn but i only actually see him like once a month or so.. today i met up with him at the park and he was really sweet and had his arms around me the whole time and was holding my hand etc... i really like him but he tells me he likes one of my best friends!!! do you think he's lying or actually likes her? and also do you think i should tell him i like him considering he "likes" my friend?
2006-10-26 02:16:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he says that he like one of your friends, then he does. Sounds like he's a player. I'd say good riddance. There are plenty of good guys out there. Go find one! Good Luck.
2006-10-26 02:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-29 04:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey you know what, pretty much what happend to me before, I played the guy obviously but..
I liked this girl a few months back, we was just friends at first, I said I thought her best friend was sexy because she had her eye on someone else (but it was me!) so I just had to move on fast and backed up what I said, but many guys are always checking girls out if you get me.
If I was you, I'd let him know that you like him, it can't hurt to try can it? you know it's a great start having his arms around you, gotta mean something eh?
If he's anything like me, he'll really like you and not your best friend. heck just give it a try hun and hope for the best.
best of luck!
2006-10-26 09:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by crash2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure that he likes your friend, I think you should try your luck before it' s too late. Go on... pour your heart out to him....
Don' t allow your fears to cost you the chance to be with someone who is apparently interested in being close to you.
2006-10-26 09:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,just becos he holds your hand n stuff does'nt mean he is in love with you,its very common between friends to hold hands...if he has made clear that he is interested in your friend then i guess its no point having any feelings for him cos it'll only hurt u and nothing else!!good luck!!
2006-10-26 09:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should let him know that you like him because if you dont & he really does like you...then you probably wont ever get a chance with him...chances are he probably does like your friend but if you talk to him all the time then he probably likes you a little too!! so go for it!
2006-10-26 09:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What??? Don't let him hold your hand and have his arms around you if he tells you he likes somone else. Don't settle for less when you want more!!
Good luck!
2006-10-26 09:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by Bea 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
About him liking your friend, he might not be lieing and he might also like you both. But give it a try and tell him how you feel.
2006-10-26 10:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is holding your hands and huggin on you I hope he doesn't like your friend and if he does.... he doesn't sound like he would be loyal to you or your friend. Who would want thier friend treated like that?
2006-10-26 09:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by ladydaisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
typical male thing to do! he's buttering up to you to get to ur best friend! run! he's not worth either of you!!
2006-10-26 09:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋