There are two girls who both like me and both act the same around me. What should I do? Who should I go for?
2006-10-26 02:16:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did not say how they make YOU feel. If you are looking forward to seeing one more than the other choose that one. I would choose the one who had the most positive outlook on life and who makes me smile and laugh the most.
2006-10-26 02:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how old you are. The younger you are - the easier it is to be involved with more than one romantic interest at a time. Once we get older - society (for some reason) tends to push us toward exclusive relationships. When you're young, it's perfectly acceptable to be interested in more than one person of the opposite sex.
You can date both of them, as long as they BOTH KNOW that you are "playing the field" and just dating and not interested in a commited relationship with either of them right now. Do NOT date them both and not be clear about that - because you will lose them both. In fact - I don't even know if dating them both will work. Some women are very possesive and won't tolerate that even if you communicate it to them clearly.
After you've hung out with both of them for awhile - you'll know who fits into your life the best. I'm sure they both have qualities you're attracted to - but if you're going to have a commited relationship - you'll have to weigh up those qualities and chose the best woman for you. There are lots of qualities you can look at to see who is the best fit. Common interests, values and morals are things that help to make a relationship work. Also, clear, open communication is very important. Maybe you are more interested in hair color or body type - but believe me - those things don't matter that much in the long run when you're looking for a lasting relationship.
Good luck!!
2006-10-26 09:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... You're going to need to do a little bit of research on all of this. If they act the same around you... That's what it is... An ACT. No one acts the same around someone unless they are trying to impress.
I suggest you take some time and get to know them individually first. Try and hang out with one girl alone, and then the other. You don't want to make a decision before you really know what you're getting yourself into!
If there's already oen of them you like a little more, go for it! But I would really suggest taking a little time to know them befor eyou rush into things.
2006-10-26 09:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by Rialee 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Which one do you lilke better? If you can't choose, stay single
and don't commit to either. But don't lead them on. Let them
both know where you stand. Trying to be with them both is a
risky way to do it, and it could blow up in your face.
Choose one, stand by your decision, or just be friends with them.
2006-10-26 09:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think you should go for the girl that you have the most in common with and that you think will make u the happiest in a relationship
2006-10-26 09:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a wife and 3 other women. enjoy it while it lasts
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2006-10-26 09:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well def. NOT both!! go for whoever you like better.....weigh out your choices...who would you be better off with?
2006-10-26 09:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think you should pick one of them, because that's the right thing to do.
2006-10-26 09:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by mendi-boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you know will stay with you... you go with both ill kick your *** k? :)
2006-10-26 09:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. D 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋